Question Game with Dad Part 2

If you’ve ever wondered about what kind of person your father was as a child or just wanted to get to know him better in general, maybe you should try asking him some questions. At first, you might feel shy or uncomfortable approaching him, but he may feel differently. After all, men often enjoy talking about themselves and most dads would probably love the attention. Besides this, you might think you know everything there is to know about him, but this is highly unlikely, especially since you didn’t know him when he was younger.

(This is Part 2 of the two-part question game with dad series. See here for Part 1: questions to ask dad about you)

Get to Know You Dad Better with These 10 Questions for  Dad

Here’s a list of 10 questions to ask your dad to get to know him better:

1. What did you lack as a kid that you’d like to give your own kids?

Plenty of parents have a tendency to talk about what they lacked as a child. For instance, you might have overheard your father tell someone else that he didn’t have any toys as a young boy and this is why he resolved to give you these types of gifts. On the other hand, this might not have happened to you and this could give you a reason to ask.

2. What jobs did you have growing up?

In case you haven’t noticed, fathers usually love to talk about their jobs. Not only can this give him an ego boost, but it can make him feel useful. Plus, asking him this question can give him a chance to relive some experiences that helped him mature into the person he is today. To illustrate, if he edited newspapers in his younger years, this might explain his fondness for writing. Or he might have designed and sold t-shirts in his youth, and this is what helped him know he wanted to open his own graphic design business when he got older.

3. Who was your best friend in middle school?

Understanding the type of best friend he had in middle or elementary school can help you gain insight into his childhood. For one, if he had a friend who he calls clever, maybe they enjoyed playing pranks on people. Or he might have had a nerdy best friend, which might cause you to wonder if your dad’s more intelligent than you think.

4. What was your biggest childhood dream?

Knowing what his hopes and dreams were as a child could be of interest to you. For example, maybe he wanted to be a superhero, or he could have been more realistic and dreamed of becoming a firefighter. And if he wished to become a superhero or had another highly imaginative dream, this can tell you that he was extremely idealistic. Moreover, you can consider how your childhood dream compares to his.

5. What experiences would you like to have in the future?

While you might think your father has experienced almost everything he’s ever wanted to experience, you could be wrong about this. Of course, he may have goals you don’t know about. Maybe he yearns to master oil painting techniques or would like to take classes to learn a foreign language. Alternatively, he could desire to purchase a boat when he retires.

6. What were you like in high school and how would your classmates describe you?

Despite who he is now, your father may have been a completely different person in high school. Moreover, his classmates might have perceived him as someone other than who he was at the time. They could have misjudged him and thought he was a bad boy when in reality they might not have known him very well.

7. How did you and mom first meet and was it love at first sight?

Since the beginning of every love story can be exciting, you might like to know how your parents met. If your dad says it wasn’t love at first sight, all sorts of questions might pop into your head. You might wonder whether they ever belonged together in the first place, or you could begin to think about if love at first sight even exists.

8. Who in your childhood helped shape you into the person you are now?

Everyone has someone in their lives who helped them become who they currently are, even if this person or people only affected them indirectly. This could be your dad’s own father, a teacher he admires to this day or someone else who had a significant impact on his life. Additionally, people who could have inspired and had an indirect impact on him include a celebrity he’s always looked up to, an activist or another person.

9. What are your favorite things about being a father?

Being a parent can be complicated, especially since there are high and low times. Although he may not express his feelings too often, your dad likely has one or more things he thoroughly enjoys about being a father. He could appreciate working hard for his family, or he might be proud of the kinds of children he raised.

10. What movies and books did you love when you were a kid?

Since he’s a dad, you might never have thought he’d ever do similar activities to you. But the truth is he was once a kid too and, in all likelihood, had his own favorite books and movies. After he answers your question, you might want to watch a movie he loved or read one of his beloved books. This can give you an opportunity to understand how he thinks and compare your favorites to his.

One thing with dads is they can be storytellers. Indeed, it’s important to be aware of this as he answers your questions. But even if he does have a penchant for avoiding the truth, this can also tell you about the type of person he is. On the bright side, you might like him more after you learn to accept him for who he truly is.

References

• VeryWellFamily: Questions to Ask Your Father to Get to Know Him on a Deeper Level – Link
• Greater Good Magazine: 20 Questions to Ask Your Father – Link

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Question Game with Dad Part 1

One thing you might wonder about is how well your dad knows you. In fact, this could give you insight into how close your bond is. On the other hand, you might not care so much about gaining inner depth, but maybe you’d rather just have fun with it. No matter what, asking him some serious and not-so-deep questions can help you understand his feelings about you a bit better.

(This is Part 1 of the two-part question game with dad series. See here for part 2: questions to ask dad about him.)

10 Questions to Ask Dad About You (His Son/Daughter)

Here’s a list of 10 questions to ask your dad to see how much he knows you:

1. What was the first pet I ever had?

If you’ve had pets since childhood, then your parent should remember this one. This can be particularly true if your father was the one who helped you potty train your puppy or drove you and your dog to the veterinarian. Of course, almost nothing is more loved than someone’s dog, cat, hamster or whatever type of pet you may have had. So, if your dad answers this one correctly, he might actually have been paying attention.

2. Which dream career did I have growing up?

Every child has a dream career and they usually never forget it, even when they become adults. For example, you might have wished to be an astronaut, video game designer, kindergarten teacher or something else entirely. The career you dreamed about in your youth was in all probability something that helped mold you into the person you are today.

3. What was my favorite childhood book?

You probably had a children’s book you cherished and always remembered. Indeed, you might have carried it with you on family trips and anywhere else you were allowed to read a book. This book possibly even took you to imaginary islands and other planets where otherworldly creatures roam and in some cases talk to each other. Some classic favorites people tend to adore include Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, Are You My Mother?, Charlotte’s Web and The Story of Ferdinand, among others.

4. What was my first job ever?

Since your first job was doubtless one of the highlights of your life, you might spark your dad’s memory by asking him this question. It was in all likelihood important to you, even if you didn’t work particularly successfully. For one, you could have worked as a cashier at a fast-food restaurant, pet sitter for the neighbor’s dog or gift wrapper for the holiday season, among others.

5. Who did I look up to as a child?

There are plenty of people your male parent could say you looked up to as a youngster. For instance, you might have idolized a famous actor, respected a particular teacher or appreciated your father a whole lot. No doubt, whoever this person was, he or she must have made the utmost impression on you.

See also: 60 Father-Daughter Quotes: Meaningful Sayings

6. What are some of my proudest accomplishments?

You might be proud of the time you won the spelling bee in the fifth grade or another time when you helped your team win the basketball championship in middle school. You may have a cabinet full of trophies or a wall display of blue ribbons to show for your efforts. Besides this, you could glory in a single accomplishment or multiple victories. If your dad remembers even one of these, give him extra points.

7. What pizza toppings do I like the most?

Although it might not seem to matter whether your father recalls the pizza toppings you prefer, it might say plenty about how much attention he pays to your preferences. For one thing, maybe you’re a vegan and your favorite pizza toppings are pineapple, mushrooms and garlic. But if your dad doesn’t remember this, he might have forgotten you’re a vegan. And this could reflect poorly on him in your eyes.

8. If I won the lottery, which family member would I share my winnings with?

Each family member has a secret, or not-so-secret, person they favor over others, mainly when it comes to certain situations. In this instance, you are as likely as not to know who you’d share your lottery winnings with if you won a large amount of money. If you know who this person is, then everyone else in the family could probably guess who it is too. This family member could be someone who has a similar personality to you, or maybe you trust him/her more than everyone else.

9. Which parent do I go to when I need help (car trouble, homework problems, etc.)?

Ten to one, the parent you go to when you need help is the parent you favor. This means you might trust this person more than the other parent. While you might love your mother to death, your dad might be a more understanding individual. Despite the fact that you may or may not say whether it’s one or the other, both of your parents can perhaps answer this one with ease.

10. What scared me most when I was a kid?

This could be one of the easiest questions to answer. This is because when you were afraid of monsters in the closet, the boogeyman, or just scared of the dark, your mom, dad or both must have come running to your bedside. As this was something they also had to worry about, they both probably remember what mythical beast or other imaginative figure frightened you out of your wits.

Whether your dad gets every question right or not doesn’t have to matter too much. After all, he’s only human and probably won’t remember everything about you there is to know. So if he isn’t perfect, try not to hold it against him. Instead, maintain a positive mindset. At the same time, if it bothers you that he doesn’t know you well enough, it can be helpful to remind him that you want him to remember the details of your life more often.

References

• LoveToKnow: 100+ Questions for Family

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Question Game with Friends: Questions to Ask Your Friend When Bored to See If They Know You

Great friendships can be hard to come by. With the twists and turns of life, we sometimes get lost in it and forget how important the relationships we make are along the way.

Slow down and take this time to evaluate those friendships, learn about the people around you, and see how much they’ve learned about you. You may be surprised to know that your friends have been paying more attention to you than you though!
If not — these questions are still a great starting point to communicate and create deeper relationships that you’ve never had before.
Below are 10 questions to ask your friends, let’s see how much they really know about you:

1. What was my childhood like for me?

This almost seems like a given. Everyone’s childhood affects them differently, however, and that is an important note to make. Have you shared your upbringing with your friend? Have they shared theirs with you? Knowing where someone comes from is an important indication to see how they’ve become the person they are. Maybe you’ve hinted at things that have bothered you from your childhood that you haven’t noticed and that they’ve picked up on. Maybe you both realize that you don’t necessarily talk about the past. Either way, a great starting question to ask your friends!

2. Who was my first crush?

It may seem like this is a silly question, but this is just an inch step closer to opening the door to your love life. First crushes are fun, they are engaging, and they are innocent. Odds are you briefly mentioned it a time or two and then completely forgot about it. How well have they been listening to the playful conversations?

3. What are my current hobbies?

Many friends become friends because they share the same hobbies, but opposites can attract as well! Do they know everything that you like to do? Are they interested in it too? If they are, do they know your side hobbies that aren’t your main focus? Having friends that listen to you ramble on about what you genuinely enjoy doing are great friends to have, and will show you how much they enjoy talking to you about other things that don’t just interest them.

4. What is my go-to karaoke song?

Of course, there are all types of friends. The friends you have more serious conversations with, the ones you enjoy partying with, then those you can pretty much do everything with. Who knows your go-to karaoke song? Let’s be honest, our karaoke pick says a lot about us without having to say much at all. If they know which song you like to belt out on stage, odds are they probably know you better than you know yourself.

5. Is there something I would change about myself? If so, what would it be and why?

As you move from the sillier and more fun questions to the more serious ones, really dig into how well they know you as a person. Would you actually want to change something about yourself? The answer to this question probably was never fully said out loud in the past, but a friend that knows you knows how to listen and read between the lines. They know how to see your reactions and read your body language to see what you are happy with and not happy with when it comes to yourself.

6. If I could have one day with anyone living or dead, who would it be?

Ah, the famous “if I could have dinner with anyone” type of question. Another question that could seem surface-level, but it could definitely be much deeper than that. Maybe they know you want to see a late loved one, or perhaps they know that there is a famous artist whose brain you want to pick. This is an engaging question that both of you could play off of. Did they know that this person is the one that you would have picked? What have you talked about in the past that would have determined their answer?

7. What scares me the most?

Life can be scary — in a superstitious way, in an emotional way, in a jump-out scare kind of way. There are many things that can tug at our nerves, but what scares you the most? A friend that knows you will know that one thing in the back of your mind that you are secretly afraid of, but never utter it out loud. These friends are the ones you want on your side when you need some support, because they know how much it affects you.

8. Where have I felt lacking in my life?

We often feel disappointed in ourselves (or in certain parts of our lives). We might not clearly point out that we are unhappy, but people can see it with how we act and react to this area. This is a great question to see if they pay attention to the unhappy areas in your life. It’s also a great question to see if they listen to you when you are expressing doubts and when you are venting about the problematic pinpoints of your life.

9. When no one else is around, what do I do?

If no one else is around, how would they possibly know what you do — correct? Well, that’s not always the case. Friends can read certain familiarities in their other friends and gauge how they are alone by those little actions. A friend that knows you pays attention to how you are around people, what you are comfortable with, and combats it with how you two are alone together. In these circumstances, you can tell a great amount of how someone is by themselves.

10. What is one time that I genuinely felt great about myself?

There are certain moments in our lives when we feel genuinely uplifted about ourselves and our lives. With these moments comes stories that we tell our friends and our families. It might have been a compliment or the way that a stranger simply waved hello that changed your entire day. Either way, friends will remember that story you shared with them and that will go a long way!

There are several questions that we can ask those close to us to see how well they truly know us. In asking these questions, we learn how much we share and we also learn more about ourselves through their answers. Give these ten questions a try and learn how great sharing with another person can be.

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Your mother is the only person who can honestly say she has known you your whole life. She knows many of your secrets and idiosyncrasies. Your mom can recognize your laugh from across the room and usually is the person who knows how to comfort you when no one else can.

The lifelong mother-child bond is very strong for many. It is built on years of memories, laughs, heartaches, victories, and tears. However, you were not part of her story in her childhood and pre-motherhood years. Also, moms always want to be a strong, steady, safe place for their kids, so you are likely shielded from your mom’s vulnerabilities.

❓ Question Game with Mom Part 2 ❓ Get to Know Your Mom Better By Asking Mom These Questions

Here is a list of pointed questions to ask your mom to help give a glimpse into the parts of her story that may be a mystery to you.

1. What is one of your greatest fears?

This immediately opens a conversation that requires vulnerability. It may be difficult for her to answer because it is allowing you access to a part of her you may have never seen before. The answer to this may explain some choices she has made that you previously did not understand. Opening with this question may start to break down barriers and allow her to feel more open and comfortable in a very personal conversation.

2. What is a fond memory of your childhood that can still make you smile when you think of it now?

This will be like taking a trip back in time for your mom. Hearing this story will hopefully introduce you to special people and places in your mom’s past. It can open the door to strolling down memory lane through photo albums and fill in the blanks in those early chapters of your mom’s story that you don’t fully know.

3. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?

Mothers want their kids to see them as close to perfect as possible. By asking this, you are in a sense saying to your mom “I know you have flaws, faults, and doubts and it’s OK.” You are giving her permission to take off her superhero cape. Knowing the answer may give you an opportunity to support your mom in working toward self-improvement. It is a good way to grow and strengthen your relationship.

4. Who is a historical figure that you admire?

Is the person she lists adventurous, an intellectual, a fighter for social justice? It is likely some of the characteristics this person has/had are traits she would like to have herself. Also, having a better understanding of qualities she finds commendable in others may illuminate why she chooses the people who are her closest friends.

5. What is one thing that has happened in your life that has been a surprise?

Most people have a “life plan” in their late teens and early twenties and, inevitably, it doesn’t pan out that way. Learning what unexpected twist or turn has been part of your mom’s journey can really show her flexibility and her resilience. Also, moms enjoy imparting wisdom to their children, and this is an opportunity for your mom to share what life lessons she has learned when she encountered the unexpected.

6. What do you think changed the most when you became a mother?

Maybe your mom changed her career path, made financial sacrifices, or quit smoking when she learned she would soon be a mother. Perhaps her whole outlook on life changed. Knowing what she chose to change, shows you just the level of sacrifice your mom made for you even in your earliest days of life.

7. What is your most embarrassing moment?

This is a great chance for some good belly laughs. This question combines a bit of vulnerability with light-heartedness and keeps the conversation from becoming too heavy. So many times, we see our parents putting on their best faces in front of other parents, their bosses, their in-laws etc. Moments like this let you see mom in a rare, silly and natural moment usually not seen by children during their childhood.

8. What do you think is the most difficult decision you have ever made?

Many people have a very memorable and pivotal decision in their lives that changed the course of their personal history. What the decision was and how she arrived at the eventual choice she made can be eye-opening. While listening to your mom explain this answer, you may learn how she deals with stress, disappointment, and self-doubt.

9. What is an accomplishment in life that you are proud of?

Moms are always bragging about their children and making sure they are in the spotlight. However, when it is their time to shine, it is probably a humble moment with little to no fanfare. Give your mom an audience. Give her a chance to shine and be in the spotlight, as she assuredly deserves.

10. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?

People’s dream destinations are usually an indicator of what’s important to them. Would your mom want to go to the homeland of her ancestors to learn more about where she comes from? Is she adventurous and wants to zipline across the rainforest or go on an African safari? Her answer could surprise you because it’s more like your answer than expected. Conversely, it may surprise you because it tells you about an interest you never knew she had.

Question Game with Mom

Because she protects you and wants to be your safe place and strong tower, your mom has probably put up some walls or drawn distinct boundaries between the two of you over the years. It may be difficult for both of you to transition to a relationship where you are both open, vulnerable, and authentic. Hopefully, this list can be a jumpstart for tearing the walls down and deepening your connection with your mom.

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Best Friend | Your Crush | New Friend

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Here are 10 questions to ask on a first date:

1. What are your pet peeves?

Asking your date what annoys him/her can encourage you to be honest with each other from the start. For example, it’s okay if she doesn’t like horror movies because this is her personal preference. This just means you’ll have to avoid seeing these types of films if there’s ever a second date. Moreover, knowing one another’s pet peeves can help you avoid getting on each other’s nerves. Loud chewing, slurping when drinking, being late, slow internet and turning without signaling are some pet peeves people tend to have.

2. What kind of kid were you?

Knowing what kind of child someone was can tell you plenty about their childhood and the type of person they are now. For instance, your date might say he loved playing with LEGO toys as a child, and this is why he decided to become an architect. Or he could talk about how much he enjoyed drawing cartoon characters, and this activity was what led him to become an animator. As well as this, remember to answer the question yourself so he has the chance to understand how your childhood shaped you into the person you are now.

3. Do you have any hobbies or passion projects you’ve been involved in lately?

Passion projects and hobbies are two different things. While passion projects are meant to inspire you to explore a deeper side of yourself, hobbies are leisure activities people do for pleasure. When you know what someone spends her time doing, you can find out how compatible you are with her. For one, she might like to run marathons for charity every weekend, while you would rather play board games with her all day. This could be a sign you’re not compatible enough or maybe you should just start participating in marathons on weekends.

4. Have you read any interesting articles or books recently?

Having stimulating conversations can help you both figure out if you can get along without arguing. Plus, you might find that you both love reading the same genre of books or have an interest in similar topics. This could lead to you joining a book club together or even writing a book as coauthors. A similar question to ask is if she’s seen any great movies or TV shows lately.

5. Do you know any jokes that could make someone laugh out loud?

While many people probably know a few good jokes, most people likely don’t know any that could provoke the biggest laughs. Before your date, you might want to do your own research to find some online. Alternatively, head to the library and check out one or two humorous books to study. You could also try practicing writing your own original jokes.

6. What was the best and worst thing that happened to you today?

Listening to someone talk about one day in their lives could give you an idea of the types of experiences they usually have. If the person talks about how she cooked for her three children, then in all probability she does this on a regular basis. Another example is if someone talks about losing money in a poker game, then he might have a gambling problem. But it’s crucial to note that everyone experiences highs and lows. So this may not be an indicator the person is wrong for you.

7. Who are the most important people in your life?

Understanding how a guy or girl feels about the special people in his or her life gives you a glimpse of what matters to this person. For one thing, if he calls his mother every chance he gets, maybe he’s a mama’s boy. On the other hand, she might care about her dog a lot and this explains why she volunteers to walk dogs at a nearby pet rescue shelter.

8. Would you rather…?

This type of question gives you both the freedom to be silly or deep without taking the conversation too seriously. Just go with the flow and have fun with it. Almost nothing can be more attractive to some people than someone who has a sense of humor. When you’re on a first date, it’s important to keep things friendly and light-hearted.

9. Do you have any fun facts that no one knows about you?

Numerous people on this planet probably have at least one fun fact they hide from the people around them. Asking this question on your date could bring out a secret you could share together forever. For example, although she may be 33 years old, she might still believe in Santa Claus, or he might be a genius at inventing practical objects.

10. Is there anything you want to learn or wish to have in the future?

Getting an answer to this question can be helpful in understanding the other person’s hopes and dreams. In particular, he might say his wish is to change people’s lives by feeding the homeless. Upon hearing this, you can gain insight into his kind heart and soul. She could say she wants to learn to speak a foreign language, which might mean she appreciates different cultures.

Instead of waiting for inspiration to come to you on the day of your first date, have a few questions ready. Of course, you can slip these into your pocket or purse and review them when your date leaves the table. After all, asking the right questions can be exceptional icebreakers and make you feel more comfortable around each other.

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As we age and there aren’t 4-hour road trips to soccer tournaments or sleepovers at your house with all your giggly pre-teen friends, that bond with mom often changes. When we step into adulthood, most people still look to their mom for advice and know that she will always be a safe place, but it may not be as easy to “bare your soul” when you have become an adult and both you and your mom have grown and changed.

❓ Question Game with Mom ❓ Questions to Ask Your Mother to See How Much She Knows You 

So, how do you reconnect and rebuild that mother-child bond you had in the early days? Here is a list of questions to help spark meaningful conversations with your mother.

1) Who are my closest friends?

The people we surround ourselves with can say a lot about who we are. Mom knowing who your friends are shows you that she knows the kind of characteristics you are drawn to in others.

In addition, knowing the answer to this question means your mom knows who to call if she is worried about you or wants to throw you a surprise party. It also indicates that she knows you have people in your life who allow you to be your authentic self.

2) What is one food I love and one that I hate?

If your mom cooks and you have siblings, this question might be a sneaky way to find out who her favorite child is. If she knows that your favorite foods are but never cook them for you ever, that could be a sign that you might not be her favorite!

Anyway, this Q&A gives you the chance to tell mom just how much you have matured by showing her your adventurous palate. It also encourages her to serve your favorite meal the next time you visit her for dinner. Finally, use this opportunity to tell her that you don’t actually like the marshmallow Easter Peeps anymore.

3) What is something on my “bucket list”?

Evidently, you’re close to your mom because you won’t be playing a question game like this if you weren’t. Anyway, while mom may remember your mischievous deeds as a child, but does she know about the things you want to do before you kick the bucket?

Sharing an adventure or goal you have could lead to discussing something your mom wants to do, but still hasn’t done yet that may surprise you. It may give your mom a chance to help you make your dream a reality. There may be someone in her hiking group or her ladies church group who has connections that can help you meet that person or visit that place you have always wanted. Who knows, this could lead to a mother/child bucket list adventure!

4) What is one of my biggest pet peeves?

Here is another question that serves multiple purposes. First, it can show your mom just how much you’ve grown. And second, you can now handle wearing the same shoes as someone else at a party without batting an eye, while also opening the door to a non-aggressive way to share with your mom something she may do that drives you bonkers.

5) What is a decision I have made or something I have done that I regret?

No relationship grows without some vulnerability. This question not only helps you to see how much your mom knows you, depending on what she answers, it also tells you how much you have been sharing with mom. If she doesn’t know the true answer, it’s perhaps you haven’t been sharing with her to begin with.

Anyway, further discussions from this question can show her that you still find her to be that safe place and allow you both to celebrate how you have risen above some of your not-so-shining moments. It is a chance for your mom to remind you how unconditional her love is and there is never a bad time to be reminded of that.

6) What is something I’d like to change about myself?

You may find that this question gives your mom the opportunity to applaud and compliment you. Sometimes what we dislike about ourselves, like how we snort when we laugh or have a squinty smile, is what others find the most endearing. The question is also an opportunity to coerce some honest feedback from mom, which you can use to improve yourself.

7) If I were a character in a book or movie, who would I choose to be?

This is a perfect conversation starter for light-hearted and fun conversation. It can lead to learning more about you, such as what your favorite movies or books are. You can even take it a step further and the two of you could have a 2-person book club by reading a book together and having that to talk about and bond over.

8) If I am having a bad day, what is something that is guaranteed to cheer me up?

The subject of what makes us happy generally lifts everyone’s spirits. Mom will love knowing the answer to this one and will keep it close to her heart for when she needs it to brighten up one of your rainy days.

9) What are 3 words I would use to describe myself?

Moms know how they see you, and to an extent how the world sees you, but they may not know how you see yourself. How you see yourself gives a glimpse into your world perspective, which can really enlighten a mother as to the person their adult child really is.

10) Besides you, who is someone I really admire or look up to?

Talking to your mom about this can give a window to your future, into who you still want to become. It may inspire her to challenge herself to develop her own qualities, to be a person you admire even more.

Conclusion

Adulthood brings transitions of many kinds. One of those is the mother-child role into more of a friendship. It isn’t always the easiest or smoothest transition. Contrary to what the wisdom of many rom coms might suggest, everyone doesn’t have their mother as their instant best friend.

As with all relationships, mother-child relationships come in many shapes and sizes, none are perfect, and they ebb and flow over time. Perhaps, this list can help jump-start conversations and ensure that your mom not only knows your story from the beginning but that she is also an important character in it for as long as possible.

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Your Crush | Yourself | Your Mom

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Here’s a list of 10 self-discovery questions to ask yourself

1. How do your biggest fears hold you back from living the way you truly want to?

If you think about it, any fears you may have probably hold you back from accomplishing your future goals and dreams. One example is when someone is afraid of heights. This fear has likely prevented this person from riding exciting roller coasters, hiking to the top of a mountain to witness the beautiful scenery and riding to the top floor of a tall building in an elevator, among other things. By not facing your fears, you miss out on all sorts of opportunities.

2. What three things inspire you the most?

Being aware of what inspires you can be helpful in incorporating these things into your daily life. For instance, if music inspires you, then you can play your favorite tunes while you work to stay motivated. Other things that might inspire you are charitable people, spirituality/religion, the beauty of nature or a favorite color.

3. Do you have the career today you dreamed of having as a child? Why or why not?

If you had a childhood dream career, such as wanting to be a firefighter or an artist, you might not have this career now. If you don’t, then your life might not be as ideal as you’d like it to be. Alternatively, you might have the career you’ve always dreamed of, which means you’re happier than if you didn’t go for it. No matter what, accomplishing your goals, whether they seem realistic or not at the time, can make you happier.

4. What about you attracts the right people to you?

While you probably have various qualities that make you who you are, at least some of these are likely to attract the wrong people to you. For example, if you have an easy-going nature, people who aren’t your real friends might notice this and try to take advantage of you. But if you learn to control this side of yourself, then you can use it to make genuine connections.

5. What are your values and beliefs? How can living by these improve your day-to-day life?

Committing to live by your values and beliefs can have a profound effect on your health and happiness. Several examples of these are creativity, family, humanity, intelligence, learning, kindness, and compassion.

For one thing, if you incorporate compassion into your days on a regular basis, then you have the chance to gain meaning, purpose, and empathy. Another example to consider is creativity. You can take drawing classes, learn to sew or paint, or write a book. Plus, creativity can boost your self-esteem and improve your social life.

6. Who or what motivates you to be your best self?

When someone or something motivates you to be your best self, you’re more likely to accomplish your goals and be successful in everything you do. For one, you might know a teacher or even have a special grandmother, who’s always been an exceptional role model for you. Otherwise, you may feel motivated by things, namely famous artwork, a childhood stuffed toy, a favorite book or something else.

7. How do those you admire most motivate and inspire you?

Understanding why you admire someone can tell you a great deal about yourself. In particular, if you’re inspired by a famous humanitarian, such as Martin Luther King, Jr., then you might have similar qualities in yourself that you’d like to develop at some point in your life. This may mean you’d like to advocate for human rights and equality.

8. What are some things you’d like to improve about yourself?

By improving yourself, you can enhance your quality of life in various ways. Suppose you know you need to work harder and commit to doing this. After a time, you’ll notice that by working harder, you earn a steady income, can purchase necessities, and might buy items you enjoy buying.

Other ideas to improve yourself are eating a healthy diet, having an exercise plan, using less technology, practicing self-care, donating money to charity every week or anything else you can think of.

9. What have you always wanted to do but never tried?

Checking items off from your bucket list can help you live without future regrets. You might have always wanted to go skydiving, ride in a hot air balloon or swim with dolphins but never actually did these things. Other experiences you might wish to have had are going on a safari, traveling through Europe, or changing someone’s life for the better, among others.

10. What makes your life more meaningful?

When your life lacks meaning, you may feel depressed or even lack the motivation you need to live. Realizing what genuinely matters to you can give you a greater sense of purpose.

This could be volunteering for a cause you’re passionate about, spending time with family and friends, playing frisbee with your dog, practicing yoga or meditation, or something else. After you’ve figured out what’s meaningful to you, you can integrate these things into your daily life.

A Few More Words on Self-Discovery

One of the best things you could ever do for yourself is know who you are. Indeed, doing so can give you the answers you need to pursue the goals that matter to you and find friends who care about you as a person. Besides this, when you understand yourself, you can enjoy being yourself a lot more. So grab a pencil and paper to start answering some of these inspiring questions.

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Having a new friend is always exciting and nerve-wracking. There may be some dead air and silence between you and your new friend and that’s only natural. It’s like painting on a blank canvas, resetting your phone, or playing a new game for the first time. It’s something you feel thrilled about, but don’t exactly know what to do too. Don’t worry, there are a lot of good conversation starters you can use to safely engage your new friend.

Get to know your new friend with these 16 topics. They are perfect for small talks that can easily turn into a more meaningful conversation.

1. Talk about pets

Do you have any furry friends at home? If you both have cats, then maybe you can walk them together. What’s the origin of your pet’s name? Perhaps your pet is an exotic animal like tarantulas? It’s a good way to start an interesting conversation.

2. Discuss food

As the popular saying goes, the way to someone’s heart is through the stomach. Your similarities in taste will give a good hint that your newly found friendship has the potential to last for a long time. What’s your favorite comfort food? What’s your favorite restaurant? Do you know how to cook?

3. Music can be a good topic for new friends

This will greatly explain the rhythm your new friendship will be beating to. Music is a gigantic universe and there’s so much to explore. What’s your favorite song genre? Who’s your favorite artist? Maybe there’s an upcoming concert you’re both interested in. What about that new jazz bar that just got open up around the corner? Perhaps you’re both K-pop fans, there’s only one way to find out.

4. Safe discussion topic: movies

This is probably one of the safest things to talk about. You can talk about the recently finished awards season or the blockbusters currently showing in the cinemas. What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your feel-good movie? You can watch a mind-boggling movie together and debate about it. Perhaps there’s a new show on Netflix that you’re both watching.

Read also: Movie Date Night: Dating Tips

5. Travels – has your new friend visited anywhere recently

Traveling is one of life’s greatest pleasures. What places do you recommend visiting? What’s the best place you’ve been to? What’s your dream destination — anywhere in the world? Whether it’s a local or international destination, it doesn’t matter. It’s always worthwhile to share your thoughts about the places you’ve always wanted to visit.

If your new friend has recently visited a certain city or country, ask them about their experience – the food, people, things to do, etc.

6. School and studies

If you’ve already made your way out of school, talk about your school memories and experiences. If you’re currently in school, talk about the policies, classmates, school events, and the most inspiring teachers you have. Maybe you’ve just found your new study buddy.

7. Social media – rumors & gossips

Nowadays, it’s almost impossible not to have a social media account. In fact, one of the ways to start a friendship is to follow each other in the virtual world. Anyway, social media allows two new friends to stay updated on each other even if you don’t hang out often. It can also be a point of discussion. If your social circles overlap, talk about your common friends. How did you come to know them and in what capacity? If you come from very different circles, perhaps there are certain influencers that you’re both following. Try to find something you share in common. If there’s really nothing in common at all, you can always share content that you find interesting. Memes, images, articles, videos… Just remember not to overdo it! Because you might be making your new friend bored.

8. New friends should find out each other’s zodiac signs

Casually bring about this topic. Zodiac signs and astrology can be fun to talk about but it’s not everybody’s cup of tea. If your new friend seems to be interested in this topic, time to find out what is their sign. All the better if your new friend doesn’t know their sign! You can help them to find out their sign from their birthday. This is an astronomical way to jumpstart a new friendship.

9. Have a conversation about the current events

Discuss national and international matters. Share your thoughts about the latest happenings in your local scene. This may spark up debates and opposing ideas, but that’s what makes it interesting. How’s the COVID-19 situation in your city? What are your national crises?

10. Skills

Are you good at playing the guitar? Are you interested in painting? You can highlight both of your talents and support each other.

11. Talk about dating life

Some people are more private on this matter, but some are open about it. If your new friend is open to it, this topic will take you to a roller coaster conversation. Everyone has unique dating experiences and break-up stories. You will definitely bond as you empathize with each other’s emotional stories, provide relationship advice, and hope you don’t make the same mistakes again!

Read also: 60 Questions To Ask Your Crush

12. Share pet peeves

If you want to get on your friend’s good side, you better keep away from things that will annoy them. There’s no other better way to know about these things than talking about each other’s pet peeves. Are you fine with people eating food from your plate or people not using the signal lights when turning? I’m sure as hell that I’m not!

13. Sweet dreams and nightmares

No one remembers their dreams, but you might remember the special ones. Dreams represent a person’s inner mind, something they worry about a lot, or something that is hidden in their subconsciousness. Try asking your new friend about his memorable dreams and interpret them together.

14. Favorites

This list could go on for a long time that you might never have to run out of anything to talk about. What’s your favorite alcoholic beverage? Who’s your favorite cartoon character? What’s your favorite store? Other ideas include ice cream, tv shows, books, and ways to enjoy coffee.

15. Here’s a topic to talk about: shopping

Where do you often shop – in the malls, thrift shops, or online? Your friend might have secret deals to share with you or a referral code that would benefit both of you. This is your chance to recruit a new shopping buddy. Finally, someone could tell you which looks better – the ripped jeans or the mom jeans?

16. Daily life and routines

Routines are probably the most human topic to talk about. Everyone goes through with it every single day. What’s your usual day like? What modes of transportation do you use going to school or work? Talking about routines can easily branch out into other related topics.

What’s your go-to topics to talk about when meeting someone new?

Make sure to use these 16 topics that will drive new friendship into an express lane towards a more genuine and deeper one. You don’t need to impress your new friend with your answers, just be your cool and natural self.

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You see your crush from across the room. You feel your face turning red, your heart beating fast. Suddenly, it feels like the air is thick and it’s harder to breathe. You’re starting to sweat, and you realize you’ve got the jitters. Quick, you need to think of something to talk about.

But first. Hey, relax. Breathe in, breathe out. No need to worry too much. After all, I’m sure your crush is also human like you. We are all subject to imperfection. It’s about how you carry yourself and knowing how to play the game. Below are some good topics to talk with your crush.

Related: 60 Questions To Ask Your Crush

Fun Topics to Talk About With Your Crush

To start off, we’ve gathered a few topics that can help you start a meaningful, fun conversation with your crush. Pick a topic or two, something that you know pretty well and you will grab your crush’s interest.

1. Fashion

You can always pay your crush a nice compliment by appreciating his fashion sense and how he looks good in his outfit.

2. Sports

Figure out what sport he likes and root for the same team. Pretend you have tickets for the game so you have a reason to ask him out.

3. Music

As the saying goes, “Music is what feelings sound like.” It’s a simple way of letting your crush know your feelings. Establish that connection, create a melody that both of you can sing to.

4. Movies

A random topic that’s safe to discuss. You can always choose to talk about ongoing blockbusters or choose to dwell on the emotional love stories like “The Notebook” by Nicholas Sparks. Read also: Movie Date Night: Dating Tips For Girls

5. Interesting TV shows

It may be a TV series or a simple gag show. Anything that’s trending is a good conversation starter. Make sure you’re updated with it, though. You would want to be able to relate and have something to say.

6. Talk About Travel

Everyone has the desire to travel. Regardless if it’s out of town or out of the country, it’s always nice to share thoughts of the places you want to visit and the experiences that you’d like to have while you’re there.

7. Hobbies

A very broad topic, but gives you an idea of how your crush spends his free time. Be inquisitive, find a common denominator that you two can do together.

8. Talk About Pets

These cute critters are always the perfect alibi to safely approach someone. Your crush’s pet may not always be cute, it may be an iguana or a spider. But nevertheless, show interest and fondness.

9. Tell Your Crush Some Jokes

Practice your delivery skills, you don’t want to sound lame, right? But being lame is funny too. Just shrug it off, laugh at yourself and you’ll find your crush laughing too for sure!

10. Studies/school

It’s always a great excuse to approach your crush asking about homework. Pretend you need a little help, or if it’s the other way around, proactively offer your free time to lend a hand.

11. Fun Games

It could be an outdoor game, board games, mobile, console, or PC games. You can ask what game he plays and wind up a match together. Play as a tandem and aim for the win!

12. Social Media Apps

Knowing where to stalk your crush would give you a sneak peek of what he does and where he usually goes. Aside from having the chance to stare endlessly at his pics, you can hang out at one of his favorite spots and drop that “Oh you’re here too!” statement to start a chat.

13. Cooking

Not everybody is good at it. I, myself, ended up toasting a sausage to crumbs the first time I tried frying. But if you are skilled at this, then it’s about time to use those bragging rights. Ask about his favorite dishes and show off your culinary skills by offering a taste test.

14. Talk About Childhood memories

Look back at the good old days when you were still kids and didn’t care if you looked like a mess or you didn’t take bath. Pay a compliment on how your crush grew up to be the head turner that he is now.

15. Friends

Talk about your peers, think of someone that both you and your crush are friends with. Once you’re able to identify that one person, let’s say it’s Jack, you can start your approach by saying “Hey, you’re Jack’s friend, right?”. And so on and so forth.

16. Family

Knowing more about your crush’s family puffs up the feeling that you have a genuine interest in knowing him more. Consider it an investment. These are the people that could vouch for you and help you grab your crush’s attention.

17. Jobs

This is most effective when you are new to your post. Pretend to be the damsel in distress and you need his help to get more familiarized with your task. Get his number and say that you might need to ask a few questions every now and then.

18. Talk About Achievements

Commend your crush for the accomplishments he’s done. It could be as simple as learning to flip the pancakes or building his own teleporting machine. Whether big or small, make sure to celebrate those wins.

19. Clubs

Find out which club he’s into and join him. Let him feel that you share a common interest. Don’t be too clingy, though. Just drop hints when you’re at a club meeting. Glance at him from time to time and flaunt that jaw-dropping smile.

20. Lottery

How lucky could you be if you were to win a huge sum of money! It’s fun to know how you’ll both spend your Benjamins knowing that this is one opportunity that rarely knocks twice.

21. Talk About Holidays

Talk about how you’ll be spending all that free time for the upcoming holidays. Arrange a get-together and meet up with family and friends. Turn this into an opportunity to know each other deeper.

22. Photography

Lots of people enjoy taking snapshots whether professionally or as a hobby. Ask your crush to be a model on one of your photoshoots. The flattery would help you score a few bonus points as well.

23. Parties

Talk about an upcoming party that you could both attend. Offer to meet up at the party and remember to look your best to impress. Don’t be shy, muster the guts and just do it.

24. Beach

The beach has always been a place to unwind and forget about everything for a while. Talk about spending a relaxing time at the beach or how you’d like to go crazy and party like there’s no tomorrow.

25. Aliens

Ignite the curiosity and share your own thoughts about this topic. You can discuss documented seeings, personal experiences, or how these creepy extra-terrestrial beings could look like.

26. Skills

Exhibit admiration on your crush’s skills. Highlight his talents and how far he could go with them. If you’ve got contacts that could help him out, that’s another bonus point for you.

27. Talk About Habits

It could be good or bad, funny or not. Just prepare yourself to accept the best and the worse part of him. It helps to know he could be himself even if you’re around watching him like a hawk.

28. Talk About Goals

Learn what he wants to be in the future. You can talk about short-term goals or long term ones. Help him create a path on how to achieve it, and let him know that you’ll always be there through thick and thin.

29. Languages

Let’s admit it. It’s not easy to learn another language. There are languages that sound so different from ours and it takes a whole lot of time and patience to get used to it. Slip him a credit and give him an “A” for A-ffort (effort). Haha, that’s just one lame joke we’ll do today!

30. Online dating

These online dating sites are getting more cheesier every day. Talk about your exposure or should we say, “mastery” on how these sites work. You can also play a little prank and make a dummy account. Have fun checking out how people respond to you.

31. Superheroes/supervillains

Choose from a wide range of fictional characters. One good idea is to think of one that looks like you or has a superpower that you’ve always longed for. Get ready to show him what a kick-ass you hottie you are.

32. Talk About Happiness

No need to beat around the bush. Learn how to cheer him up when he’s grumpy. Find out if he has a comfort food and show him that even the littlest, thoughtful gestures can make one person’s day brighter.

33. Celebrities

Pretend that you’ve mistakenly thought your crush was some famous star and ask for an autograph. Talk about how that certain celebrity has a significant resemblance on him. Make him blush, tell him that he’s far more good-looking than those actors in Hollywood. Find humor in exaggerating just a teensy-weensy bit.

34. Bands

Regardless of the genre, it could be a professional band or a local talent. Have a smooth convo and make your way towards inviting him to a concert. Say you have tickets and you’d love it if he could come and bust those eardrums together.

35. Talk About Liquor

Not a lot of people know it, but your drinks also say something about you. Depending on what you drink, liquor unknowingly gives another person a picture of your personality. Don’t fake it, just take it.

36. Dancing/clubbing

Talk about spicing up those boring Friday or Saturday nights. Exchange thoughts of the best clubs in town or those that you want to try out. Offer to book a club and bust a few moves with your homies.

37. Singing

It’s a talent that not everyone has. Build up his self-esteem and be awed by that golden voice. Let him know that you’re a big fan and you’re always looking forward to hearing his pieces.

38. Pet peeves

It’s smart to know what ticks him off. You surely don’t want to gross him out and give you a cold shoulder without even having an idea of what you’ve done. It could drive you nuts, but knowing is already winning half of the battle.

39. Talk About Your Worst fear

Listen to what he has to say, don’t overtalk. It may be a situation, a feeling, certain insecurity, or an object. Whatever it is, make yourselves comfortable by sharing these inhibitions and how to overcome them.

40. Interesting Dreams

Dreams give you a glimpse into one’s inner thought. Have a healthy chit-chat about it and try to interpret what they mean. It’ll make your heart skip beats when you see that amused or amazed look on his face afterward.

Other Interesting Topics To Talk About?

Don’t limit yourselves to these topics, you can always make up your own. Remember to let it flow naturally and you’ll surely get the ball rolling. All you need is a little faith, a bit of creativity, and a pinch of courage. Put them all together and voila!

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There comes a time when we feel fancy for someone and just can’t shrug it off. It makes you blush, makes you want to stare more. That’s what a crush does to you.

Like anyone else, we get curious and would want to know more. Be resourceful, do your research. Don’t overthink, just let it come out naturally!

Related: 5 Cute Ways to Let Your Crush Know That You Like Him

Not to worry though, below are some questions to kick start your conversation. Of course, you don’t deliver them one after the other. You don’t want to sound like some undercover agent trying to squeeze the information out of your crush, right?

60 Questions to Ask Your Crush

1. If you could change one thing about yourself right now, what would it be? Accept him for who is, not how you want him to be.
2. If you’ll be given a chance to live anywhere, where would you choose and why? Helps you see through your crush, his dreams and all.
3. Hey, how’s it going? Most commonly used, but always works like a charm, serves as an intro for your next set of questions.
4. What type of t.v shows and movies do you like to watch? Be responsive, show interest.
5. What music genre do you usually listen to? Connect through music, you’ll have an insight into his personality.
6. What’s your first impression of me? It gives you the opportunity to explain yourself and let him see how likable you are.
7. What’s your stand on kissing in public? The question says it all- should you do it or not?
8. Can we hang out sometime? One of the classics, use your convincing powers and have a few rebuttals ready in case your crush gets the jitters.
9. What’s your idea of a first date? Share thoughts, connect, be in the moment. It’ll do you wonders.
10. What do you want to be in the future? Knowing his ambitions and being supportive gives a feeling that you’re there through thick and thin.
11. What is the worst thing you’ve done that you still regret? – This reveals how vulnerable your crush is. Be a good listener.
12. How many siblings do you have? It’s a good start to get to know his family and get close to them too.
13. What are your hobbies and interests? Gives an in-depth understanding of your common interests.
14. What are 3 of your current priorities? Set your expectations and know where to stand.
15. How would you describe yourself in 3 words? – It gives you an idea of how your crush sees himself. You might just be surprised at how he responds and you’ll now know where to hit him!
16. What do you think is your greatest asset? A chance to boost your crush’s confidence.
17. What qualities do you look for in a boyfriend/girlfriend? Know if you have what it takes.
18. How do you know if you like someone? These verbal clues would aid you in paving your way to his heart.
19. What is that one thing you really wanted to have as a child, but you’re not able to get? Get in touch with your crush’s inner child, surprise him.
20. What do you do when you’re feeling low? Warm him up with emotional support.
21. What kind of pet do you have/would you like to have? Pets are always a good excuse to get closer to someone.
22. Do you know how to cook? What’s your favorite cuisine? They say the stomach is the best way to a man’s heart.
23. Do you play games? Not every girl could appreciate it. Lay out the “If you can’t beat them, join them” card.
24. What do you do for fun? Plan some bonding moments. Find out what your crush does to unwind or just chill.
25. How do you make me laugh this much? Everyone loves to have fun! Though he throws the lamest jokes, laugh your heart out!
26. What makes you happy, what makes you smile? Showing genuine interest to make him happy is more than enough.
27. Which would you prefer- naughty or nice? Adjust accordingly. Either play the hard-to-get, conservative, good girl game, or the bad-ass, wild, and go-getter babe.
28. Have you ever played the game: 7 minutes in heaven? It’s never too late, flickers the curiosity and excitement.
29. What’s your idea of a perfect day? Hold that thought and cherish it together.
30. What are the childish things you do until now? Don’t judge, find them cute instead.
31. How long have you been working out? A feel-good statement that makes him feel you’re turned on with his sexy bod.
32. Where did you get those good looks? Who wouldn’t blush? A smart way to boost morale.
33. Is anyone gonna get mad if I ask you out/buy you a drink? Real sleek. Use this to get your crush to go out on a date with you.
34. How come you’re still single? Smooth and flattering at the same time. Not asking directly, but at least you’ll know if he’s available.
35. Are you a good kisser? Always pay a nice compliment or you can offer him free tutorial!
36. Do you like cuddles or would you rather go straight to making out? Gauge if he likes to take it fast or slow.
37. Is that your cologne I’m smelling? Get close to your crush’s neck and sniff a bit before asking. This will make him feel you’re ready to go intimate.
38. What do I need to do to make you like me? Straight forward, direct answer to what it takes to win him over.
39. Why can’t I stop staring at you? It’s a question you throw in but only you can answer. Another sweet talk that makes the heart melt.
40. What turns you on/you find irresistible? A sure-fire way to his soft spot.
41. If you’ll only have a month to live, how would you spend it? Don’t deliver it bluntly. It allows you to see through what matters most.
42. How do you see yourself 10 years from now? Long-term goals that give you an idea of how to be a part of it in the future.
43. What was the best and worst part of your life? Learn from mistakes, celebrate the wins.
44. Who is that one person you look up to the most? Respect and appreciate, that’s the basic rule.
45. What’s the possession you value the most? Tangible or not, you’ll get to know how a big deal this is to your crush.
46. What’s the most significant thing that has ever happened to you? Embrace the significance.
47. How do you picture a perfect life? A deep understanding of how you can plan to make things possible together.
48. Would you choose money over happiness? Shells out his stand in life. It’s up to you if you’ll push or back out.
49. Do you believe in love at first sight? Something a bit cheesy — works best if used at the right moment.
50. What are your thoughts about marriage? Not everyone wants to get hitched. Know the boundaries and how to deal with it.
51. What’s the craziest thing you’ve heard people say about you? It could be a wild comment or anything, just laugh together.
52. What’s your most embarrassing experience? Share yours too to make him open up and trust you with his worst moments.
53. What’s the lamest joke you’ve ever thrown? Still, laughter is the key. Feels great to know you recognize the effort.
54. What would you do if you win a million dollars? Sync your ideas to his, imagine how you much fun it would be to spend it together.
55. If there’s one food you’re only allowed to eat in your entire life, what would it be? Just a random question you can tack on while thinking of your next question.
56. What kind of superpower would you like to have? Get a visual of how far his imagination can get.
57. What’s the wildest thing that you’ve done? A glimpse of his wild side eases the transition from the friend zone to the next level.
58. How far will you go if you’re playing a game of truth or dare? A good nudge to make your crush go beyond his limits.
59. What is your biggest pet peeve? Know how to avoid the hot seat.
60. What part of your body do you find the funniest? You don’t want to make him feel embarrassed, you want to make him feel comfortable instead.

Did you find anything helpful from this list?

Remember, this is just a guide. Perfect timing is a must when you raise these questions. Make a pattern on how to ask them, back it up with some smart, relevant chit-chat. Smile, let it flow. And yeah, stop shaking!

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