Bear in mind that we are not dealing with complete charts here, so the information is very generalized. However, you will find that it, more often than not, bears out. So which zodiac signs are the most jealous? The least jealous. How do they act when they’re in this mindset? 

Read on!

Zodiac Signs When They’re Jealous 

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Scorpios are the most jealous people in the zodiac. They don’t give their trust easily, and can become suspicious over the smallest of details. Paranoia is often a trait in Scorpio males, which makes having relationships very difficult. If you can find a way to ease their concerns, and keep them at peace, you will find a caring period underneath. By the way, never lie to a Scorpio. That’s instant death to any relationship hopes.

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Second on the list of the most jealous zodiac sign. Mr. Cancer is excellent at concealing those emotions, however. They kind of simmer in his shell. When you add being a water sign filled with profound emotion, this can get rather intense. When he’s ready to confront the issue, prepare for a heated discussion that’s not always logical. 

Leo (July 23-August 22)

With enormous passion and roaring love, comes jealousy in equal measure. Leo men rank three in the zodiac for being jealous. Mr. Leo wants your attention. When he feels slighted, that green-eyed monster comes out in full force. This is a matter tied to ego. They want that spotlight, and when it moves elsewhere, his eyes look to see where it’s gone, especially toward a rival. 

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Coming in at number 4, Virgos have a self-critical nature which can easily lead to jealousy. Envy appears when someone beats them at nearly anything. If a Virgo man is jealous, you’re like to get a dressing down that feels like you’re being scolded by Grandma for something horrible. Virgo insecurity comes from wanting to work harder and be their best self. Their sights are often set way too high.

Aries (March 21-April 19)

The ram can be a moody sort, and have a short temper. They often let their emotions lead them. While they don’t get as jealous as other zodiac signs, it’s not a pretty picture when the emotion comes in full force. This only happens when the Aries man feels betrayed. If you have an explanation, say it quickly. Until you do, his self-esteem spirals downward.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

There is a difference between being possessive and being jealous. Men born under this sign are fairly patient, and won’t act immediately on a fly-by feeling. Mind you, Mr. Taurus is covetous. He wants to be wealthier than you, and if he’s not, it challenges his sense of accomplishment. In the end, he becomes pessimistic and jealous, but it will pass.

Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

Capricorn men are more prone to jealous thoughts than actions. They will stop and consider why they feel as they do. If it’s a small thing, their sense of self-control kicks in. Jealousy becomes apparent in Mr. Capricorn when he sees someone achieving one of his long-held goals. In an odd twist, that jealousy may actually fuel his drive to go on to success. 

Libra (September 23-October 22)

If you look in the dictionary for the definition of understanding, you’ll find Libra. They are perfectly aware that life is changeable and erratic. So they just roll with the punches. This is perfect because confrontation is something they HATE. One instance in which Libra gets really jealous is when he sees another couple who appears to fare better than you. He will crave what he sees as ideal. Thankfully, Libra’s jealousy isn’t long-lasting. 

Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)

You can watch the Sagittarius man for years, and never see him appear jealous. His optimism carries him through any crisis. Mr. Sagittarius loves his freedom and simply doesn’t get jealous often. When he does, he truly dislikes it. Jealousy for this sign comes from being reliant on someone’s affections who doesn’t seem to be giving enough.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Winding down on the jealousy scale, we come to the Aquarian man. He is a complex creature who, rather than let any thoughts of jealousy build, tried to find a solution. He’ll examine himself and talk over his feelings. Even when it comes out that his partner cheated, he doesn’t agonize over the revelation. He accepts it “as is” and walks out the door to a new tomorrow.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)

The idea of jealousy is foreign to the Pisces man. After all, we don’t “own” people. We share them with various circles. Also, Pisces doesn’t fear rejection. They’re perfectly self-sufficient on their own. Having said that, there are moments when Mr. Pisces gets an idea in his head and starts questioning everything. He becomes sentimental, which clouds his head. Clear-thinking eludes him. Since Pisces isn’t prone to anger, he will suffer in silence with his jealousy, blaming himself.

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

Geminis are not the jealous type. They are carefree with just enough possessiveness to make you feel special. If you were to ask a Gemini if they are jealous, they’d laugh it off and make it seem like everything is perfectly fine. In such cases, however, he will avoid talking about the significant other altogether.

Remember that Gemini is a mutable sign, and the Gemini man is truly of two minds. One day he may be jealous, and the next, he resolves it. It’s hard for partners to keep up.

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Mind you, don’t expect a lot of PDA (public displays of affection) from your Cancer man. They don’t open up easily. Some of their personal life when it comes to relationship stays silent. Don’t be insulted by this. Cancer is very sensitive, so they hide their feelings in self-defense.

The Cancer man is inclined toward jealousy, particularly when he feels insecure in his relationship. They value your devotion and truly want the “ever after” scenario. Sometimes the jealousy becomes resentment. If the Cancer man is sure of betrayal, there will never be forgiveness.

You may find your Cancer becoming, well, crabby! They sometimes fall into a needy spot and start treating you like a possession. In such moments, they don’t realize the damage they may be causing. It’s important to keep the lines of communication open and clear. Where some other signs might object to ongoing text messages, Cancer loves them. Your attention supports self-confidence.

Signs A Cancer Man is Jealous

Cancers can be hard to read sometimes, but there are signs that your Cancer man is feeling jealous.

1. He retreats into his shell

He feels vulnerable and uncertain. His mind is reeling with the “what ifs.” Betrayal, real or imagined, feels like a deep cut that won’t stop bleeding. Moving into himself and creating distance gives him a sense of safety. He can be alone with his thoughts. More importantly, it is a space in which he escapes perceived toxicity.

Sometimes, this time results in soulful meditation wherein he may discover his conclusion was wrong. No matter what, the sudden approval for giving you some personal space is a huge red flag.

2. He uses his pinchers for an attack

Pinchers, in this case his words and actions, are the Crab’s first line of defense. He will go for your known buttons and push them with full force. His anger is visceral, cruel, and sarcastic. The more he feels wronged, the worse it becomes. See, the Cancer man wants you to feel what he’s feeling-his pain. And while he won’t get physical, this is not a pretty time in your relationship. In this situation, you might do well to take some alone time yourself to recover.

3. He runs on silent mode

Should a Cancer man stops communicating or gives short, abrupt replies, he’s overthinking things. As time allows, he collects whatever evidence he can, then examines everything in order to come to a conclusion. Afterward comes the inevitable conversation. He will confront you, but at least you’ll understand his reasons for feeling jealous.

4. He turns to passive-aggressive coping

When the Crab has an itch they can’t seem to scratch, they turn to clever ways of checking up on you. For example, he may use social media by “friending” people who he feels may give him the clues he needs. When you’re not looking, he may check your cell phone. The Cancer man may go so far as to keep notes on your comings and goings.

5. He becomes very needy

If your Cancer man feels jealous he’s going to want 100 percent of your attention. If you have plans alone, he will try and convince you to change them in favor of a “date night.” When you are out together, he’ll hold you closer than usual. If he thinks anyone is insulting you or slighting you, that individual will hear about it in spades.

Why is the Cancer Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

First, you must remember that Cancers are natural flirts. So stop and consider if this is just his natural behavior or something more. If he’s obviously making a show of it when you’re nearby, then something else is afoot. He may want to elicit a merry chase with you. Something playful, romantic, and arousing.

Most often the reason this gentleman is trying to make you jealous is his own sense of insecurity. Something’s happened and it bruised his self-confidence. In this situation, he needs your jealousy (even if you just pretend). It makes him feel attractive and worthy to fight for. Playing hard to get isn’t just a woman’s purview.

While it might sound contrary, another reason your Cancer man may try to make you jealous is because he fears rejection. He wants you to become the torchbearer and make the first move. He wants to see your interest. Remember that the sign of the Crab does have a shy and reserved aspect to it.

How to Make a Cancer Man Jealous

If you’re trying to make your Cancer man jealous, there are several ways to go about it. First, stop telling him about your feelings. Cancers are emotional, and he loves to talk about emotions with you, not only his but yours. This is how he builds connection, and when you tell him intimate things he becomes your confidant. So, when you want nothing to do with such discussions, he’ll wonder if you’ve found someone else in whom to confide.

Keep your replies to questions short. If you’re incredibly happy about something, pick up the phone and tell your best friend first. It will drive him crazy.

Another approach is being secretive. The Cancer man is often mysterious, but they will want to share secrets with you and expect the same in return. If you act like you are hiding something it will poke the green-eyed monster within. Go on an errand and don’t say where you’re heading, for example, and don’t ask him to come along.

Third, avoid giving him a lot of attention. He wants to be close to you and feel like the center of your universe. Instead of answering those texts right away, wait a few hours. If he’s asking about plans for the night, put him off. Since he’s prone to insecurity, and hates being ignored, this is the perfect stew for summoning jealousy.

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Your Aquarian man is authentic. He will show you his true self, and you will never have to second guess him. At work, he needs to be the boss. Being ordered around is a recipe for disaster.

When you first meet an Aquarian man, he may seem patronizing. He has thought a matter through thoroughly and truly believes his conclusion is correct. Compromise isn’t really a word they can embrace. This all comes from a keen intellect that all too often overthinks things. Aquarians often become life-long students due to an obsession with learning more. 

From the perspective of morals, you can trust Mr. Aquarius to hold true to his values, even if their not the norms. They’re sacred to him. He seeks out what is just, and fight for what is noble and good. The Aquarian man also accepts other lifestyles with a “live and let live” philosophy. 

If you are in a relationship with an Aquarian man, be prepared to fade into the background sometimes. Once he’s caught up with passion about a project, it’s what they think about all the time. They plan on accomplishing their goal, so personal time lessons. The nice part about this aspect of the Aquarian personality is that he will not even date you unless there is true interest. They know their worth, and won’t waste time on “iffy” prospects.

If you are a somewhat needy person, don’t date an Aquarius. They need to have a life of their own and expect independence from their partner. Jealousy on your part will make him run for the hills without a second thought. 

Sexually, be prepared for innovation. Aquarius men love sex, but they don’t want it to get overly repetitive. Variety is the spice of life for him, and it will power your relationship.

The beauty of the Aquarian man is his unpredictability. You’ll never quite know what’s on the horizon Glove trotting is definitely on this guy’s bucket list. He will always want to surprise you. 

By the way, never lie or break a promise to Mr. Aquarius. That’s a deal breaker.

Signs an Aquarius Man is Jealous

Now, this is tricky. Aquarians aren’t really prone to jealousy. They’re too busy living their lives in the moment. Even if they get jealous, they don’t admit it. But there are some striking signs that your Aquarian man is jealous.

1. He becomes even more independent

You may have grown accustomed to your Aquarian guy being out and about. However, if he’s jealous, that distance grows. He’ll avoid spending time with you. While away, he’ll work on his feelings. Give him that space. If he feels pressured, it will only make matters worse.

2. His vibe is “off”

The Aquarian man is unconventional and eccentric. However, when he is jealous, he may push his normal wit. His reactions feel forced, and his bohemian nature runs amok.

3. Being unusually quiet

It is hard for the Aquarian man to integrate difficult emotions, especially jealousy. They really don’t know what to “do” with it. As a result, he’ll use few words in replying to you, and often just sit in silence. Where in social settings, Mr. Aquarius loves to talk and exchange ideas, this is personal and intimate. There’s no telling when he might be ready to talk things through.

4. Flaunting Flirting

Ok, there’s no question Aquarian men have charm. A blink of the eye looks like flirting. But this is different. He does it brazenly in front of you, especially if he finds someone you see as competition. This is revenge flirting for what he sees as betrayal. They also want to make you feel jealous; he wants you to pay attention and show your feelings.

5. Possessiveness

Now, this is a no-brainer. Aquarian men want to be foot-lose and fancy-free. Now suddenly, he’s hovering? He doesn’t trust you, so the closer he stays to you, the better. A little attention is nice, but this is over the top.

Why is my Aquarian Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

The Aquarius man isn’t fond of jealousy. It’s constraining and goes against his nature. So if he actually tries to make you jealous, he may feel something is off between you. Have you been busy with other people and things? Yes, he likes his independence, but you should connect regularly to alleviate any worries.

Second, Mr. Aquarius may want validation of your feelings. This guy doesn’t want to just spin his wheels. He’s looking to see if you are as interested as he.

While free thought and movement are Aquarian traits, all people want to feel special sometimes. When you leave an Aquarian man to his own thoughts for too long, he may envision any manner of things and start getting anxious. At that juncture, he may do something to invoke your jealousy.

How to Make an Aquarian Man Jealous

It is very difficult to make Aquarians jealous. If you manage to do so, don’t expect he’ll respond like anyone else you’ve dated. Rather than want to grab his prize, he might just walk away, seeing the whole display as immature. Remember Mr. Aquarius won’t put effort into someone who appears duplicitous or overly dramatic.

Whatever efforts you design must not come from manipulation or duplicity. He’s likely to see right through you. At that juncture, he’ll decide you’re not worth the fuss.

A far better approach is putting on an air of mystery. Aquarians love puzzles, so they’ll want to figure you out. Instead of trying for jealousy, you endeavor to allure. Think about your strategy. Give him tidbits to follow. Eventually, he’ll unveil at least one of the things you were hiding with great joy. But, hey, you still have more!

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As you might expect, Pisces is a water sign, so you can expect the Pisces man to be emotional, sensitive, sympathetic, imaginative, and a tad unrealistic. While this fellow has grand ideas, he needs people in his circle to keep him somewhat grounded. 

One thing that will frustrate you about the Pisces guy is that while they will constantly care for you, they don’t know how to accept it back. In fact, they will go to great lengths to avoid showing any need or desire. They feel it’s imposing.

If you’re looking for romance, the Pisces man fits the bill. They want to please their significant other in any way possible. Now, if you’re the independent type, a Pisces man may not be for you. But if you want devotion, this sign oozes with it. You will never be second to anything or anyone.

Pisces men do well in the workplace because they want to get along with everyone. They have an easy-going outlook. If they land an innovative job, they’ll be very content. The only problem is that Pisceans don’t always recognize when someone is exploiting them at work, or elsewhere.

Both Neptune and Jupiter influence this sign. Meaning the Pisces man can be both secretive and sociable, esoteric but worldly in their own way. These are old souls who have a never-ending well of compassion.

Don’t be surprised if Mr. Pisces turns out to be psychic. Sometimes they can be so spot-on as to make people nervous. Even when Pisceans aren’t actively trying to sense things, they really can’t turn off their empathy. If you see a twinkle in his eye, you’ll know he picked up on something. 

Signs a Pisces Man is Jealous

Because of their high level of sensitivity and kindness, it’s not easy to make a Pisces man jealous. If they are jealous, they will likely tuck it away inside for further research. Plus, they not only trust you but know how to forgive. Your Pisces man knows that everyone has faults, and he’s open-minded to understand why you may have strayed.

However, these signs may indicate jealousy is afoot:

1. Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Your normally expressive partner suddenly gives you the cold shoulder. He doesn’t like being petty, so instead, he shuts down. Give him a little time in this space, as he’s probably measuring his feelings. In due time, he’ll find the words to express what’s laying heavy on his heart.

2. Pisces Private Detective

When he thinks you’re not looking, a jealous Pisces man may start taking a peek at your notes. He may check your phone contacts. To be sneaky about it, he’ll ask to use your phone! Or, perhaps he follows your every move on social media. He wants the truth but isn’t taking the best path to find it. His fears of losing you overwhelm logic. If things are really bad, he’ll stop playing detective himself and hire one.

3. Questioning your Behavior

Remember, Mr. Pisces is intuitive and perceptive. It’s hard to get anything past him. If he notices you acting oddly, be prepared for ongoing questions. In most cases, there is an innocent explanation for the subtle changes in your behavior. If you can communicate that, you can fix the problem by boosting his self-esteem.

4. Emotions Change on a Dime

All that water in the Pisces man means he’s already emotional. When he’s jealous, however, he can’t begin to control those feelings. He’ll be angry one minute and laughing the next. Should you notice this happening, try to talk to him about it.

Along with emotions, you may find him waffling on decisions. When his thoughts are filled with fear, he begins questioning everything. So when choices come up, he overthinks them.

5. He Becomes Maudlin

There is nothing quite so sad as a Pisces man wallowing in self-pity. He becomes depressed because he feels he’s losing you and doesn’t know what to do next. Even when he is trying to make you happy, the gray cloud follows him around.

Why is my Pisces Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

While they’d preferred you didn’t know it, the Pisces man can be fragile. It doesn’t take much to hurt their feelings and make them feel self-conscious. So when you’re enjoying a conversation with someone he considers an interloper, his jealousy will come out. 

Abject fear is another reason your Pisces man may try to make you jealous. In the human A-B-Cs of emotions, fear is one of the strongest, particularly the fear of being alone. His jealous actions are a cry for assurance.

Should your Pisces man feels you’ve put him at the bottom of your list of priorities, that’s a trigger for jealousy. He wants quality time with you, and never boxes you in. However, when “later” never comes, he’ll act out, wanting your attention.

How to Make a Pisces Man Jealous

The Pisces man isn’t really known for jealousy. They consider it immature. Nonetheless, he has strong emotions. So if he sees you lavishing someone else with attention, it’s bound to make him jealous. You can see it in his eyes.

While Pisces men are known for wandering in their imagination, they’re not used to their partners doing likewise. Become aloof. Pretend not to hear him right away. Or, just make yourself absent. Go out more with your friends without him. He’ll notice, and sadness follows.

Bear in mind that Mr. Pisces is a very trusting soul. When you play games like this, it will wear on that trust, and could eventually put a wall between the two of you. So the question is, why do you think you need to make him jealous.

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Thankfully, there is a lot to admire about Mr. Archer. He has high energy, loves good-natured fun, and if there’s an adventure, he’s all in. There is little he would not like to try at least once. The Sagittarius man can nearly always make you laugh and excite you with his visions for the future. The word “mundane” doesn’t appear in his script. 

In his career, he can’t succeed in any “boxy” job. He needs flexibility. If the occupation includes travel, all the better. In some ways, he feels like the proverbial rebel with a cause. Being ruled by Jupiter, this isn’t surprising. He loves philosophy and is a student of the world all his life. Don’t give him gifts; give him a unique experience. 

Your Sagittarius man is very certain of himself, so he doesn’t get jealous easily. They may flirt with you just for some admiration rather than long-term interest. Be alert. Some men born under this sign will lead you on until they feel you’re no longer necessary. 

Sagittarian men are very independent. He will not be happy with someone who is clingy. He regularly needs personal space and a partner who respects his wishes. Once a good partnership happens, sex with Mr. Sagittarius is exciting. He makes fun when he makes love. He will flirt with you and encourage you both to experiment. Just don’t expect long talks afterward. 

Sometimes it’s good for the Archer to have over one partner at a time. He may jump around, or create a polyamorous setting. The variety provides curiosity and challenges. In any case, he is more physical in sex than emotional. 

In getting to know a Sagittarius man, you’ll immediately notice his optimism. In every moment of his life he strives for improvement, even when it means facing an obstacle. He generally sees the best in people, and will only draw a person into his inner circle if he’s serious. 

Boredom is like kryptonite to Sagittarian men. He’s always moving, always thinking. If there’s nothing going on, it won’t take him long to hatch a plan for something mentally stimulating, exciting, or new. 

Good partners for Sagittarius include Leo and Aries, both of which are fire signs, too. For opposites attract relationships, it’s Gemini. 

Signs a Sagittarius Man is Jealous

Sagittarius can prove tricky. He is carefree, lighthearted, and one of the least jealous signs in the Zodiac lineup. He may get jealous from time to time, but hates it! Why? Because it puts the spotlight on his dependency on another person.

1. Passive-aggressive joking

Humor is a social tool and a coping mechanism for the Archer. It’s one way he expresses internal conflict that he hasn’t recognized yet. Listen closely to his jokes. Is he poking fun at you or someone he feels is a rival? That is jealousy.

2. Possessiveness

Being territorial isn’t in the Sagittarius man’s nature. He treasures freedom in relationships. Over-possessive partners are a turnoff. So, if he’s acting overprotective, it’s a fairly good sign he’s jealous. 

3. He sulks and becomes cranky

You will rarely meet a Sagittarian man who doesn’t have a positive attitude. He walks on the sunny side of the street. Jealousy will put him in an obnoxious, overly emotional mood, quite unlike his normal happy-go-lucky demeanor. 

4. Anger swells to the surface

One step beyond crankiness is outright anger. When the Archer’s jealousy overwhelms him, he may verbally erupt. His partner is directly in the path of harsh words. Once he calms down, he will continue talking and provide his perspective. At this juncture, you can clarify everything. 

Why is my Sagittarius Man Trying to make me Jealous?

The Archer is diligent and watchful. He is also a truth-seeker. So, if he notices something is “off” and that “something” continues for a while, he may grow concerned. At this juncture, the normally staid Sagittarius man may try to make you jealous.

Sagittarian men rarely show their feelings, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want you to express your emotions. If you stop, he may fear he’s losing you. This makes him off balance, and he may resort to trying to make you jealous.

Sometimes a show intended to make you jealous begins with the Sagittarian wanting to test your intentions. Remember, this guy doesn’t just let people in on a whim. He’s looking for the right person. How you react to the scenario he sets up will be a defining moment in your relationship.

How to Make your Sagittarius Man Jealous

As you know, this guy isn’t prone to being transparent. You may not know when he’s angry, upset, or jealous. He’s a focused philosopher who gets lost in his mind or work and may not even notice your attempts.  

Just a warning. Sagittarius hates mind games. He’d rather you just tell him what’s bothering you. If you do try to elicit jealousy, one way of doing so is being secretive. Don’t tell him about every moment of your day with friends. Keep your day planner out of sight. Such actions can rein in his attention back to you. 

Another approach is to become uncharacteristically self-attentive. Pamper yourself more. Go out with old roommates. Take a weekend away to reset by yourself (yes, think spa). It won’t take long for the observant Archer to get the message. 

You might try becoming inaccessible. Don’t answer calls so quickly. Wait to return messages for a day or two. When he can’t reach you, jealousy erupts. 

Then, of course, there’s the tried-n-true flirting with others. Unless a guy is very enlightened, this will bug him. If he thinks he has his life’s love, flirting may make him panic a bit. What will happen if he loses you? Mr. Archer will internalize his feelings, but with little help, jealousy develops. 

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More than anything else, Taurus demands loyalty. They invest in long-term relationships 100%, no holding back. This is the source of deep jealousy in the Taurus man. They expect devotion and fidelity.

The hardest part about being with a Taurus man is that he sometimes treats you more like property than a companion. If Taurus was an early explorer, he’d claim every rock he stepped upon has his own. This behavior is born out of the Bull’s love of material things, the fancier the better. It takes time and communication to deter this trait, and it isn’t likely to wholly disappear even then. 

Signs a Taurus Man is Jealous

People born under the sign of the Bull don’t hide their jealousy very well. But if you’re looking for tried-n-true signs, there are several.

1. He’ll make detailed inquiries as to your activities

Lets say you set up an afternoon out with someone from work that your Taurus man never met. He’s going to want specifics. Their name, how long you’ve known each other, perhaps even their DNA. If it’s someone he’s only known for a while, the questions continue but may be more subtle. For example, if he noticed a brusk interaction during a previous encounter, he’ll ask how and why it happened. 

All of a sudden he’s become like Inspector Clouseau and you’re just waiting for his magnifying glass to appear. He’ll review your text logs and posts on social media. While this is very intrusive, it’s the Taurus way of getting to the bottom of why he feels as he does.

2. Amped up possessiveness

We already talked about how Taurus has some control issues. He’s always acted somewhat possessive and territorial, but now it’s 5 times worse, especially should you have plans with another man. He will want to be at your side everywhere, every moment, every day. It’s exhausting. He will also loudly pronounce your role in the relationship, “my wife” or “my partner” or “my girlfriend” to anyone who will listen.

3. The silent treatment

One reaction from the Taurus man during bouts of jealousy is pushing you away. He may avoid conversations curtly, ignore your texts for days, and just generally become sullen.

4. Grand shows of affection

Rather than pushing you away, he pulls you in. His territorial instinct is high, and he finds a way to figuratively mark his territory. You’ll receive flowers from him in public, along with kisses and a strong arm across your back to show you’re taken. If you’re at a social gathering, he won’t give you much more than a few minutes alone. Clingy, thy name is Taurus. He may push the envelope so far as to tell you where you can and cannot go (or who you can hang out with). This, of course, is unacceptable and must be immediately addressed.

5. He acts like a schmuck

Being hesitant about his true feelings, he starts acting out in stupid ways. His communication is convoluted. He becomes gropy at wholly inappropriate moments, including times when you just don’t want to be touchy-feely. The Taurus man may go so far as to poke at old wounds just to elicit a reaction. He’ll be lucky if you don’t kick him out for a while.

6. He’ll leave the relationship

With the Taurus man, there will come a point of no return. The threat he senses is so palatable that hey just walks away. You may never understand why, and he will ignore any efforts on your part for closure.

Why is my Taurus Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

When you think of the Bull, words like bold and brave come to mind. Sheepish and insecure isn’t among them. Nonetheless. The Taurus man struggles with self-esteem and self-confidence. Those feelings make him distrust new people and cause barriers to making new friends.

Building on that premise, the Taurus Man finds his bravado sorely tested in social situations. To hide his nerves, he may switch to flirting, much of which becomes a turn-off because it’s self-centered bragging. Here, you see your Taurus man asking for help from you in not the best of ways. Give him some time and attention to soothing his delicate ego.

Speaking of attention, your Taurus man may resort to trying to make you jealous if he feels somehow neglected. Now, his perception may be true or imagined, but it’s changing his behavior. Find a way to show him you’re taking “special” time just for him. Send him an E-card. Greet him with a romantic dinner. If you make quality time, his reaction will change nearly immediately.

Should you suddenly cancel plans, your Taurus’ man’s mind starts churning. He thinks, “is there someone else,” or “have I done something wrong?” So when you bow out, make sure you have a solid reason for so doing or he may endeavor to make you jealous somehow.

Ways to Make Your Taurus Man Jealous

If you think of why he tries to make you jealous, ways of making him jealous become clear. Taurus dislikes it when you don’t communicate openly, especially if you act secretive. That triggers insecurity and jealousy swiftly. Don’t reply quickly to a phone message, cancel your plans at the last minute (unavailability is powerful). Express your appreciation of another man’s features. There is little question this approach works.

Besides being a little distant, try making plans with a friend, dressing up beautifully, and excluding him. You must tell him why, of course, but he’s unlikely to wholly believe you. His jealousy will kick him into proactive responses to your wants and needs, including alone time with you.

Beyond this, you can bring up other men in your life casually, showing your recognition for something they’ve done. The more impressive the better. In group settings, direct your discussion to others more than him. Start doing more favors for other people than you do your Taurus man.

As with any relationship, jealousy must be carefully considered. If you constantly talk about your ex, constantly flirt openly in front of him, and repeatedly give more time to others than him, there’s a strong chance he’ll leave, never to return.  
 

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Mr. Libra is very interactive. He gets the idea of social flirting. It builds up two people at once. Cool! Libras can talk about everything and always find the right words to make you feel better. So when things go awry, the Libra diplomat usually comes out before the green-eyed monster. Truth is, they prefer peace. Fighting isn’t really in the Leo Man’s wheelhouse.  

In their desire to make a “power couple,” Libra men will always strive to make themselves into a better version – the one you want. But that can overwhelm, and when it does the jealous streak may eke out. This is especially true if he sees you becoming more independent. 

Generally, you can expect the Libra man to be calm, kind, approachable, and classy. The one thing that leads them to anger is an embarrassment. They will quietly calm down, but they will never forget the moment until amends are made. 

In matters of love, Libra is somewhat of a butterfly. He can fall in love with a face, or a voice, or a person’s cut – or all three people in one day. At that moment, it’s all about the joy they feel, and a sense of cooperation. Obviously, not all these connections become intimate but may become friends. Thus, prepare. Libra understands the jealousy game very well. 

Signs a Libra Man is Jealous

Libra can be very accepting, sometimes annoyingly so. It’s hard to make them jealous in part because they hate conflict so much. Libra men are fair-minded, and love flirting, so why should they deny you that fun? When they suspect you of stepping out, they take a pause to consider if they’re being irrational. However, there are some things for which you can watch.

1. He’ll Pack up and Leave

While this is harsh, at the end of the day a Libra will make up his mind. Air signs are notorious for intellectualization. His analysis leads him to the conclusion that this relationship is too much trouble. Mr. Libra knows there are options, and he’ll go exploring for them. 

2. Detachment

Before actually leaving, you may notice Mr. Libra withdrawing a little more every day. His messages to you get shorter, his emotions colder. In his mind, this will make the final ending much easier to endure. 

3. Flirting

Ok, this may be harder to spot since Libra likes to flirt, but it will be over the top, ogling type of flirting. In one way, he’s trying to get a reaction out of you to see if you still care. Alternatively, he may be checking out new prospects. 

4. Lavish Attention

When the Libra man feels jealous, he often questions himself. So, he’ll amp up the roses, romantic meals, and manifest other gestures to see if he can correct what’s wrong. If you’re unhappy, his empathy kicks into high gear, and he’s willing to make a serious effort. 

5. Suggesting a Change in Status

This may throw you for a loop, but Mr. Libra may suggest having an open relationship so both of you can explore your options more thoroughly. He may even go one step further and offer you the opportunity for a polyamorous relationship. It’s time for an honest sit-down! Find out why he feels as he does. 

Why is my Libra Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

Libra men are tenacious. Quitting doesn’t really fit into their vocabulary. If he loves you, he’ll pull out every tool possible to keep you. So uncertainty is one of the main culprits behind him trying to make you jealous. He wants to prove himself worthy. Other ways he may try and make you jealous and the reasons behind them include:

1. Being “super Libra”

He will try to become better than not only those he perceives as rivals, but EVERYONE in your innermost circle. Be it a game of trivia, cooking dinner, or something grander, he’s showing his skills in spades. Note that thankfully these efforts do not demean anyone else. Mr. Libra won’t compare himself or compete with others, he just wants to show you his best self.  

2. Vulnerability

In matters of love, Libra Men are “all-in” when they feel they’ve found the right person. Often that ends in getting their heart broken. So he may show that insecurity by trying to make you jealous in some manner. He thinks the worst, but hopes somehow your response will prove assuring. 

3. He’s suspicious

Libra men are loyal and dedicated. They want to trust their partners, but it’s not always easy for them to do so. There’s always a little voice in his mind stressing caution. If he thinks there’s cause for concern, he may seek out ways of making you jealous. He simply wants to see that you are as invested as him.  

4. He feels neglected

While not as attention-seeking as a Libra man, he does want YOUR eyes on him. He wants to see that little twinkle, as well as your efforts to be mindful and give him quality time. For him, that extra effort is a language of love, and it makes him far more secure. When that doesn’t happen, he may try and make you jealous and become clingy. 

In trying to understand this, remember that Mr. Libra really doesn’t like being alone. Too much quiet time leads to disquieting thoughts. When you’re gone for extended periods repeatedly, there’s the sense of him being low on your priority list. 

Ways to Make a Libra Man Jealous

Libra men are pretty even-tempered. Jealousy isn’t something easily obtained. Sure, you can look hot and flirt, but your Libra may just appreciate the fun you’re having and how great you appear in that outfit!

Worse, Libra really doesn’t like showing their feelings. He prefers keeping his emotions under control. Plus confrontation is a no-no. He’d rather avoid than make a fuss.

One way that tantalizes Libra men with just enough jealousy is playing hard to get (but not too hard). Become the girl you know he dreams about, then move in and out gracefully. Be old-fashioned, drop a glove or handkerchief. 

Alternatively, find a way that you can set him up to rescue you. Let him see someone you “admire” and perceive that person as bad for you. In this scenario you must be careful because you don’t want a full-out assault happening. Rather, if you play it right, Mr. Libra will come to you, offering counsel, which you gracefully accept. Tada! A happy ending.

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It is not difficult to hurt a Leo man, no matter how strong and secure he looks externally. There is no question he has a soft heart. Oh, they may “try” to hide the pain of a bruised ego, but they’re not good at it. See, Mr. Leo is an eternal optimist who, when abandoned, seeks out someone to rescue them from melancholy. A sad Leo is like a scene out of a great tragedy. 

From hurt, jealousy rolls out. There’s a sense of lost dignity. You must show off your Leo. Give them ongoing attention (which can prove exhausting). He will shower you with presents and romantic gestures, showing their forgiveness. However, they expect similar gestures in return. 

Leo men do not take well to perceived attacks on his territory. It doesn’t matter if it’s a stranger or a close friend, they’ll be called out. You, in the meanwhile, will find it nearly impossible to reach him on a logical level. 

As a hunter, Leo himself math not always be loyal either. When paired with a suitably adoring mate, he’ll lavish his lioness with all manner of expressive gestures. If he feels you are not seeking attention elsewhere, you’ll have your Leo purring. 

Signs a Leo Man is Jealous

As much as they would like things to be different, it is nearly impossible for the Leo man to hide any feelings, including jealousy. You will know he’s developed the green-eyed monster when:

1. Speaking in a snobbish manner 

When they’re near the person about whom they feel jealous condescension arises. He’s trying to mark his turf. He is, after all, a King and deserves respect. 

2. Exaggeration

Whenever a Leo man talks about someone who inspires jealousy, they’ll always stress flaws. The nit-picking is precise and meant to deter your interest. 

3. Moodiness

Jealousy changes a Leo man’s demeanor. He may sulk, becoming rude and indolent. Sometimes, if you’re lucky, Mr. Leo will blurt out what’s bothering him, but in a manner that doesn’t make him seem vulnerable.

4. Snooping Around

As jealousy in the Leo man develops, he may begin asking a lot of questions about the people you hang out with the most. He’ll ask who was on a call, or who you were texting. He may also check your interactions on social media. There is a definite pang of paranoia that’s obvious.

5. Possessiveness

The Leo man protects what he loves. However, when he is fearful of losing you, he may become possessive. Every time you step out the door, he’ll want an accounting of your activities. Mr. Leo seems controlling, and it’s not a handsome quality.

6. Surprise!

You’re out having lunch with friends. Your Leo man shows up out of the blue, as if by “accident” (funny seeing you here!). The Lion is in stalking mode and keeping tabs.

Why is Your Leo Trying to Make You Jealous?

There are many reasons why your Leo man may be trying to make you jealous. Younger Leos do this as a test. He wants to see how you react, and if you become a little more attentive.

Believe it or not, stress wears on Leos in odd ways. They may perceive an issue where there is none and seem like they’re trying to make you jealous. In fact, they are simply responding negatively to circumstances. You can fix this pretty easily with a chat.

Third, you have to understand that Mr. Leo doesn’t simply want attention, he needs it. This is a natural part of the Lion’s psychology. They are not always overboard, but it is noticeable when Leo feels slighted.

Ways to Make a Leo Man Jealous

It is always good before embarking on attempts to make him jealous to ask yourself why, and is it truly worth the emotional chaos that follows. Jealousy is very powerful in the Leo man, and if he sees too many reasons for doubt, he may just wander off into the jungle looking for someone else.

When you decide to make Mr. Leo jealous, one effective means is flirting with someone else in front of him. Take care, however. Leo has a temper and he may become physical. On a less tense level, he will likely start making comparisons of himself to that other person, showing you their flaws.

Another approach is going out and having fun, action-packed plans without him, them coming home all happy and excited. He’ll wonder why he was left out. Next, he’ll ponder who might be garnering more of your notice than he might like.

This approach isn’t overly difficult, especially if you have a great group of friends who enjoy each other. Mr. Leo will become jealous of your ability to find happiness when he is absent. Bear in mind, Leo sees himself as the driver in the car of your relationship. He’s not used to being in the passenger seat.

Combined with having fun, dress up! Leos love companions who are attractive. In this case, however, you’re not dressing to please him. So who is it that you’re trying to attract?

Also, decrease your availability. Mr. Leo garners comfort and security from those prompt text replies, as well as you being at his beckoned call. He will not understand why you’re suddenly less responsive. Jealousy follows.

It is worth noting that some Leo men may see you are simply having a good time. Even flirting can be fun, and he enjoys it, too. You need to find the line in the sand with the Leo Man. He stresses loyalty in all his relationships, not simply intimate ones. A little jealousy keeps him on his toes. A lot of jealousy usually results in an unhealthy situation.

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There are some things on a Gemini man’s side when it comes to jealousy. They know themselves and value their independence greatly. So, should they feel you’ve wandered off, they may very well do likewise, putting energy into someone who matches their passions and sense of purpose. 

In all aspects of life, Geminis can be very contrary and unpredictable. You are, after all, dealing with twins who often express the exact opposite of each other. So he may feel jealous in one moment, and perfectly at ease the next. Good luck keeping up!

It’s worthy of note that Gemini men love to flirt. They have a great sense of humor and a remarkable way of working with words. For the Gemini, flirting is akin to an artform that assuages his ego. So, when they see you having lighthearted banter with another, they may not think much about it. In other words, being coy with others may not help you if you’re trying to make him envious.

Signs a Gemini Man is Jealous

If you’re not sure your Gemini man is jealous, there are some signs for which to watch. 

1. He becomes indifferent

The Gemini man will begin distancing himself when he’s jealous, which seems a little contradictory. Nonetheless, the amount of attention you receive wanes considerably. His normally clever tongue seems all tangled up and he can’t find words for his feelings. 

2. He uses manipulative wording

If he’s pinpointed the person he suspects you’ve been seeing, that individual will come up in conversation. The comments will be sly and pointed like daggers. Geminis know how to inflict pain if they so choose. You can stop this before it gets worse by starting the conversation and making him aware of how his commentary is impacting your relationship.

3. He starts hanging out with women, lots of them!

Your Gemini Man thinks that if he spends time with women who you may conceive as competition it will make you jealous enough to respond. Most likely these women are friends or acquaintances who he’s charmed into helping him with his plight. At first, you may find this humorous. After a while, it’s insulting to your intelligence. It’s time to have an honest talk.

4. His affectionate displays become grander.

When your Gemini man feels jealous, he may begin wanting more time with you. He’ll snuggle, stand at the stove with you, ask you out more, call you frequently, etc. There will also be other gestures like sending an unexpected gift. The Twins believe if they can monopolize your time, it leaves you little opportunity to step out.

5. He’ll want to discuss your sex life as a couple.

He may want to throw out ideas for manifesting more sparks in the bedroom. Or, he might initiate pillow talk. This is easier than actually talking about how they feel.

6. The compliments come quickly and never seem to stop.

During jealous moments, the Gemini man may think he hasn’t sung your praises enough. So he starts complimenting you often. Initially, it’s kind of nice, but after a time it starts making you feel awkward. Tactfully tell him you appreciate it, but he’s going a little overboard.

7. He becomes a negative Nicholas

Gemini men are generally in love with love. But jealousy can sour that outlook. All of a sudden he sees no hope for any romantic relationship, including yours. He becomes very moody, and not terribly clear about what he’s feeling. 

Why is my Gemini Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

With the Twins, you can expect a happy reaction to jealousy. They like the attention, particularly if it comes from a lot of people. He wants to feel interesting and sexy. Your man has no problem with being in the spotlight, garnering notice. There are, however, other reasons he may be trying to make you jealous.

Your Gemini man is competitive and likes a challenge. What better way to create a challenge than by using jealousy? Let the winner take all the spoils. This is somewhat immature, but the Twin’s dual nature creates this kind of behavior.

If your relationship isn’t developing as fast as your Gemini wishes, he may wield jealousy as a tool to get you moving.  He’s not good at waiting for the results of anything, let alone a love connection. This tendency, of course, can lead the Gemini man into some rough waters with the wrong people. Your best response here is to do something small, just enough for him to see you’re paying attention and want his in return.

Ways to Make a Gemini Man Jealous

There are some subtle ways to entice jealousy out of a Gemini without going so far as to put your relationship in danger.

Begin with lighthearted flirtation. This should be with someone in his social circle. Playful banter will do. The Gemini man will nearly immediately start showing jealousy. He will want your total attention and do everything possible to turn the conversation in his direction.

Alternatively, you can tone down the amount of responsiveness you give him. In various settings, turn your attention elsewhere. Text someone, or call a friend.

Do anything that shows you are not giving him your undivided focus, including giving him less of your personal time. Make a play date with a few people in your trusted circle, without him. Generally, this results in the Gemini turning his sights fully on you. He’ll work harder to ensure you’re paying attention.

Because Geminis are emotional, you can use perceived feelings as a jealousy tool. Be less happy when he’s around, but perk up when you talk to someone else.

Some will say it’s nearly impossible to make a Gemini man jealous, but you can. Just remember not to push the act too far. When Gemini feels you’ve crossed a line in the sand, he will turn his back and leave you.
 

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Jealousy is hard for Virgo men in that they’re rational, mind-over-heart type people. He will find ways to justify his neediness, keeping the hardcore emotions neatly tucked beneath a veneer.  Sometimes they simply retreat rather than confront a situation. The Virgo man puts space between himself and whatever made him jealous. He does not like feeling this way in the least.

Being ruled by Mercury, a Virgo man is ambitious. They know hard work leads to success. This man is honest and shoots from the hip. He has little time for people who can’t keep it real.  If he feels someone’s playing him, especially a partner, jealousy may eke out. 

Signs a Virgo Man is Jealous

1. He endeavors to interrupt your conversations with others

You are at a gathering having an enjoyable talk with someone who is attractive. The Virgo Man may saunter over and try to gently interject himself in the conversation. This approach is never rude. He’s not really intent on talking, but rather making his presence known in no uncertain circumstances.

2. The “cool” Mr. Virgo appears on the stage

Generally, Virgos are reserved. He doesn’t like anyone seeing his feelings, particularly anything that makes him feel weak. So you may feel like he’s giving you the cold shoulder for a while. During this time he’s overthinking everything. 

3. Private discussions focus on dedication and loyalty

Now, the Virgo man won’t just blurt out his jealousy. Rather he might use other people as an example. Say Milly and Max have been dealing with some difficult stuff. He may bring up this couple and casually talk about how maybe they need to do more to show each other respect and trust. 

4. Grousing and Grumpy

When jealous, a Virgo man may very well begin to sulk. He frets about everything, most of which requires no attention. He feels like the world is against him, and his luck is iffy at best. Jealous makes him think that the situation is unfair.

5. He becomes authoritative

Virgo men love having a sense of control. The problem has become they’ve turned that control away from self to you. He may start making decisions for you, with no input whatsoever. 

He wants to know your schedule, and who you hang out with. If possible, the Virgo man may go so far as to check your cell phone messages and social media posts. He is territorial. 
Meanwhile, he will try to brush off his behavior as if it’s perfectly normal and rational.

6. He becomes suspicious

Virgo men prefer a small circle of trusted friends. They go to great lengths to figure out who is “in” and who is “out.” When jealousy rears its ugly head, they may start rethinking their choice of having you as a partner. It’s time for a chat.

Your Virgo man treasures his partner. He’s loyal and supportive, even in crazy endeavors. He will be your cheerleader and active listener. Remember all this as you two talk things through. This guy is worth the time and effort.

Why is my Virgo Man Trying to Make me Jealous?

Jealousy is a very potent emotion. People fear loss, being alone, being rejected, and being replaced. So when you’re thinking about your Virgo Man, ask yourself of what is he truly afraid?

Sometimes Mr. Virgo is feeling impatient. He wants to see signs that you are really into him, and he wants them NOW. Or something may have happened lately that made him say, “hum.” He starts pondering, and before anyone notices he’s deep in the water of jealousy, and wants you to throw him the rescue line. 

Another reason the Virgo man may try to make you jealous is if he’s feeling slighted. Have you been doing a lot without him of late? When he feels constantly left on the sidelines, he may act out and try to make you jealous.

Or, perhaps Mr. Virgo seeks more intimacy. Touching, pillow talk, playful banter – any of these things will stop him from trying to make you jealous.

How to Make a Virgo Man Jealous

Doubt is one thing that the Virgo man has built into his personality. They constantly question intentions, even their own! Even if everything is perfect in your relationship, he’ll let his thoughts wander, which means it’s not terribly hard to make him jealous.

You do have to be cautious in how you play out your plans. He won’t appreciate offhand remarks. In fact, that’s a turn-off. So what do you do?

First, build your social life. Diversify it. If you are around a lot of other people, he may become jealous because he wants to be the center of your attention. There is nothing wrong with a healthy outlet that makes you happy. When you don’t include him much, however, he will become jealous.

Along with your social circle, comes availability. Be busy without him If you are not “on-call” 24-7 to answer emails and texts, he may begin to wonder who else is filling up your time. Remember that Virgo men (well, actually all men) like a challenge. The spirit of competition over a valued prize peaks interest every time. He will want to get into your good graces before other interested parties.

Finally, dress for success. Go out in outfits you know he likes the best to a committee meeting or whatever. He feels those clothes are for HIM. So, who are you dressing for, hmmm?

A word of advice. If your Virgo man discovers you used deception and game playing to garner his attention, the resulting conversation won’t be pretty. He wants to be able to trust you with his whole mind and heart, and such actions deter trust.

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