Are you wondering if a cat owner is actually dateable? The answer is a resounding yes! Cat owners get the short end of the stick in pop culture portrayals as being selfish and weird, but they are actually very nice people. Still not convinced? Go through the following list and decide for yourself. Here are 15 reasons why you should date someone who is a cat owner–male or female.

1. Cat owners can handle commitment.

There is a multitude of responsibilities that come with pet ownership. Cat owners have to provide food, safe shelter, and affection to their cats. In addition, they also need to make sure that their cats are always in good health and stay clean. To be able to do all these for a cat’s lifetime, a cat owner must be committed to the role they’re playing as a provider. This indicates that a cat owner has no problem with shouldering responsibilities and making commitments.

2. Cat owners are patient.

Cats are excellent companions. But they aren’t without their quirks. While every cat has its own unique personality, their curious nature means they will do things that test your boundaries. To make things more complicated, cats also have different ways to communicate. For instance, instead of meowing to wake you up for food, a cat might decide that knocking things over is more effective. The point is you will be challenged as a cat parent. That means long-time cat parent has earned the badge of tolerance and patience.

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3. Cat people can read your body language.

A big part of feline communication is body language. As a result, cat owners have quite a bit of experience in this area. While verbal communication is crucial to a healthy relationship, you can be certain that they will take notice when you’re feeling under the weather but you don’t feel like talking.

4. You can find out what they are like quickly…

There is a lot you can tell from their cats. This information can be extremely useful during the early days of dating. First, how do they treat their cats? If they abuse their cats, they might be hiding some mental issues. Even if they’re mentally sound, animal abuse should be a deal-breaker for any relationship. A clean and healthy kitty suggests that its owner is loving and caring. Another way to learn more about the owner is by observing their cat’s behavior. Scientists say cats like to mimic their owner, so if the cat is crazy, that might mean something. Of course, this is for reference only! It could be that they adopted a cat from the animal shelter that carried some bad behaviors with it from previous engagements.

5. Cat parents aren’t pushy.

House cats love affection. But they usually take time to warm up to someone. Sometimes that could mean years. Even then, they seem to carry some kind of daily quota in both receiving and giving affection. An experienced cat owner has learned to be understanding of this behavior. So while they’re ready to give you affection and would be happy if you reciprocate, they won’t force you to.

6. You are an introvert.

Cat people are more likely to be introverts. When you’re dating a cat owner, instead of living the life of the party, you’ll be spending quality time together in a more quiet and intimate manner. If that sounds like the kind of date you’d prefer, cat owners are definitely be appealing. Also, whether they’re introverted or not, they will be able to understand your need for some me time. Cat owners have been familiarized with the concept of private time and personal space by their cats.

7. Cat people are full of love.

A common misconception about cats is that they do not reciprocate affections. They absolutely do! So a cat owner is not only capable of loving, they’re also full of love because their cats have given them plenty. So when they’re in a relationship, they will be ready to give you the love you need because they’re brimming with it.

8. Cat parents are fun.

Cats, especially indoor cats, need their playtime to remain their usual, composed selves. So cat parents are used to playing and the ideas of toys. So if you’re looking for fun and perhaps *ahem* some adult fun, your date will be ready and accommodating your every need.

9. Cat people are independent.

You have to become your own person when you have a cat to take care of. That being the case, cat owners are reliable and independent (basically trained by their cats). While they’ll appreciate your love, they’ll do fine when you aren’t around to shower them with affection 24/7.

10. Cat lovers care about personal hygiene.

You don’t have to worry about your date being all dirty and stinky all day because they have learned a great deal from their cats’ excellent hygiene habits. Cats are, of course, famous for their emphasis on personal hygiene. Unlike their canine counterpart, cats are self-cleaning and they’re good at it. So it’s hard for a cat owner to not look into their own cleanliness when their kitty is so diligent and cleaning itself every day.

11. But they aren’t afraid to get their hands dirty.

While cat parents care about personal hygiene, they aren’t germophobic. On the contrary, they aren’t afraid to get themselves dirty. Cleaning cat litter box (poop and urine) twice a day and clean up after their cat pukes furball are some of the tasks that a cat owner does without flinching. They will make sure to clean themselves up by washing their hands or taking a shower though.

12. You get to play with their kitties.

Wouldn’t it be nice to play with cats without any ownership responsibilities?

13. You’re a cat owner yourself.

An excellent reason to date a cat parent is you’re a cat parent yourself. Your mutual interest–cats–provide a strong starting point for your relationship. I mean you’d never have to worry about what to talk about. And you won’t run into the problem of discovering your date being allergic to cats or felinophobic. When two cat parents are in a relationship, you can have a little double date (or group date) with your cats. And when you’re getting married, the cats will naturally take part in your wedding photoshoot–no arguments there.

14. More options for gift shopping.

When it comes to occasions like birthday or Christmas, you should probably buy a gift for the cat owner himself. But other times when you just want an excuse to buy your date a gift (a “just-because” gift), you can buy something for his cat instead. For example, cat toys, treats, and cute clothing. As for the cat owner himself, he’ll most likely appreciate stuff with cat design such as cat mugs and t-shirt that says “cat dad” or “cat mom” or “cat parent”. He might be too embarrassed to wear it to work, but you bet it will be his favorite t-shirt at home.

15. You’re secretly a cat.

If you have at least wondered about being a cat, you probably are a cat in human shell. As a cat-person, you would want to date a cat owner because they’ll be able to understand you best–everything from your needs to your quirks. Make sure to treasure them by giving them the love and appreciation they deserve. Just because you’re cat doesn’t mean you should be selfish.

And these are some of the reasons why you consider dating someone who owns a cat.

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1. You love your naps. On average, a cat sleeps for 15 hours a day, taking multiple naps of various lengths throughout the day (and night). As predators in the wild, they sleep to replenish and reserve their energy for the next hunt. While you may not have to hunt for food, the napping habit likely stuck.
2. You’re a sleepy cat most of the time. Being trapped in human form implies human obligations and routines. For example, work, commute, socialization, and grocery shopping. Unless you’re a home-based writer such as yours truly and hugely unproductive, it’s unlikely that you can sleep as much as a cat. And the missing naps are the reason why you are sleepy most of the time.
3. Sometimes you’re awake at weird hours. The ancestor of house cats, North African wildcats, are nocturnal. In the wilderness, these little hunting machines find it more productive to hunt at night when their preys aren’t hiding. Without the risk of going hungry and hence the need for hunting, house cats don’t need to stay awake at night. And they most certainly don’t have to turn your living room into a race track at 4 a.m. However, as a biologist would tell you, animal instincts are hard to shake off. If you tend to be insomniac or wake up for no particular reason in the middle of the night, that could just be your nocturnal cat instincts waking you up for a hunting trip.
4. You love food. Cat or not, we all have to eat for sustenance. Even plants have to “eat”, albeit doing it differently than animals. But if there is a certain food that you just cannot resist, especially if that food is some kind of snacks or treats, that may just indicate that you’re a cat in human’s clothing. Those who have experiences with cats will tell you that the best way to get a cat to approach you and trust you is by giving them delicious treats, because most cats can’t overcome the temptation of food.
5. You’re particular about food and drinks. You chow down food you love but avoid food you dislike. You hate it when your drink has gone stale. For instance, you don’t drink water that’s been sitting on the table for an entire day and you find lukewarm coffee disgusting.
6. You like to stay home. I love mi casa. It has everything I need. Food, warmth, entertainment. It makes you wonder if the writer of this article is secretly a cat herself. Like me, you also enjoy the idea of staying home. Justifiably so–there’s so much you can do at home: watch Netflix, cook, bake, dance, read, listen to music, and even dating. Why do some people work so hard to be able to afford their house only to go out whenever they’re free? Just one of those human peculiarities that a cat would never fully understand.

7. Personal hygiene is important to you. One of the reasons why some people prefer cats as pets is that cats require relatively low maintenance. After all, cats are self-cleaning and it saves you a lot of work by not having to bathe them every week. Like cats, you like to keep yourself clean. You shower twice daily. You brush your teeth and even though you skip flossing sometimes, you try your best to floss at least once a day before you go to bed.
8. You act aloof but you’re caring. Like cats, you’re cold on the outside and warm on the inside. Sometimes, you may give the wrong impression that you’re unfriendly or difficult in interpersonal relationships, but people who really get to know you understand that you’re anything but. Having said that…
9. Sometimes you seriously don’t care. The truth is it’s tiring and pointless to care about every single thing in life. Cats understand that idea. That is why they nap a lot and when they’re awake, they only focus on what really matters to them. Well, so are you.
10. You can be active but you’d always need a good meal and some rest afterward. You love your naps and you think staying home is the best thing ever. But you also find being active like doing exercises or going out to see nature fun. Being in nature away from the hustle and bustle recharges your introvert energy tank. When you’re out jogging, you prefer a less-traveled path–one that doesn’t involve like fifty other companion joggers and dozens of bikes zipping by, missing you by mere inches. And when you’re done, you’d always find a hearty meal rewarding.
11. You prefer routine and consistency. Cats are creatures of fixed routines. They tend to repeat the things they do every day at about the same time. My cat used to do little patrolling around the living room at night when he was younger. He no longer does it nowadays but when he did he would do that every night without fail. If your cat mind is trapped in a human body, you will find it displeasing when your routine is disrupted. That doesn’t mean you can’t change your routines and create new habits. It simply means that once you’ve made up your mind, you prefer not to change it without a good reason.
12. But you’re curious about new things too. People say curiosity kills a cat. While I’d hate to see any cat gets hurt, this hyperbole about a cat’s curiosity is true–cats are very nosy creatures. They’re attracted to all things new. Of course, they have valid reasons for inspecting new things. After all, these independent creatures have to determine for themselves what’s in front of them: is it friend or foe or a new place to sit and nap in? If you have a curious mind or an inquisitive one, that is definitely a sign that you’re a cat.
13. You avoid crowds. Thanks to your human shell, you can survive situations such as parties, weddings, and concerts. But you prefer to stay away from crowded places like these because they drain your energy–making you feel exhausted and stressed out afterward. And that you will need to recharge afterward by getting yourself some quality alone time and perhaps a relaxing nap. That sounds like something my cat would do after a stressful situation.

14. You love affections but you’re selective. You enjoy being loved and pampered but you have strong preferences. Sometimes that may mean that you’re staying single when all of your friends are in relationships.
15. You are intrigued by products with cat design. You secretly want to own and wear cat ear accessory, hoodies with cat ears, and baseball caps with cat ears. The plot thickens if you already own or have owned one of these items in the past. It’s an indication that your inner cat self might be having some kind of cognitive dissonance and you’re subconsciously looking for ways to look feline again.
16. You’re a cat lover. Animals are naturally drawn to their own species. That is why birds of the same feather flock together, wolves hunt in pack, and cats prefer the companionship of other cats. Bonus point if you’re a cat owner and you love hanging out with your kitties.
17. You watch cat videos on YouTube. Human YouTube users watch videos like the latest music videos, makeup tutorials, gaming channels, Yoga channels, etc. If you find yourself watching cat videos like this video of cats dinging bell for food, that might just mean you’re finding it fascinating to see your own kind’s shenanigans or their reactions to things.
18. Your Instagram is filled with photos tagged with #catosinstagram. See my previous point.

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19. Your human body can’t contain your cat nature. For trapped cats with strong feline instincts, the frail human body may fail to contain all of their felinity. And it can show in various ways. For example, do you find your nails growing at a faster rate than other people? Are your nails sharper and harder than regular humans? Do you have hair on your body? Maybe a lot of hair?
20. You have tried doing cat stuff. Your inner felinity may manifest in ways other than your appearance. Have you found yourself mimicking a cat before for fun? You know, purr-ing, kneading, curling up, roll over on your back, twitching your nose, etc. You may think that you were doing it for fun but that could very well be your true self.
21. You prefer to be a cat. Lastly, you find certain aspects of humanity absurd and you can never fully comprehend human society. Everything is overcomplicated for no good reason. Being in the rat race sickens you. On the other hand, a cat’s way of life seems so peaceful, calm, and mindful–as if they have achieved the Buddhist concept of Enlightenment. Also, cats always seem to find a way to take the most comfortable naps no matter where they are–a box, on the shelf, under the sofa–and that sounds like a great perk to become a cat.

And those were some of the signs that reveal who you truly are underneath. Did you find anything familiar from the list above? Are you a cat?

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1. Their Instagram is full of cat photos. Photos and videos tagged with #cats and #catsofinstagram fill their Instagram feed. Chances are they regularly contribute to these hashtags by uploading their own cat photos. In rare cases where their Instagram profile is not brimming with cats, you can bet that their cats will make cameo appearances in their uploads.
2. They watch cat videos on YouTube. You shouldn’t judge your date’s loyalty based on this behavior, but they do watch other cats on YouTube–often together with their own cats. A cat owner’s YouTube app is packed with cat video recommendations: videos about cats, videos that have cats in it, and even videos for cats. Cat videos are entertaining and can boost your energy according to one study.
3. Being good around cats makes you much more dateable. It’s so much easier for cat owners to date someone who shares their interest in cats. Say you’re a cat owner yourself or you’re good at playing with and petting their cats, you’re basically a marriage candidate. If you fall on the other end of the spectrum, i.e. you absolutely despise cats, a cat owner might still date you but don’t expect the relationship to be serious.
4. Cat owners are patient and attentive. One of the reasons for pet abandonment is the lack of patience. A cat, especially in its adolescence, will test your patience consistently. This means that long-time cat owners carry the seal of approval in the category of being patient, tolerant, and attentive.
5. Get yourself a lint roller and a ton of refills ready. Cat hair can get everywhere. So get a lint roller on standby because you’re going to need it. If you’re in a long-term relationship with a cat owner and you’re staying over more and more, you will run out of refill faster than you can order them from Amazon. Not to mention the amount of trash it create. A better option is to get yourself a reusable lint remover such as the ChomChom pet hair roller or the traditional nylon lint brush. These reusable tools are surprisingly effective at removing pet hair and also they don’t create tons of trash. Hint: these items are excellent just-because gifts for pet owners.

6. Dogs and cats can live in harmony. In popular culture, dogs and cats are often portrayed as sworn enemies. In reality, however, cats and dogs can get along just fine, they will need plenty of time to warm up to each other but eventually they’ll get used to each other and live in harmony. Also it helps if your dog is a people-pleaser breed like the golden retriever or Labrador retriever.
7. Staying over at your place is impossible without planning. In the early days of dating, a cat owner may seem unspontaneous. To some, they may even appear suspicious, as if they’re hiding something. They can never stay over even if the night is going really well. Well, in the case of a cat owner, they need to return home to take care of their furkids: filling their bowls with food, changing their water (cats dislike stale water), and giving the kitties the attention and playtime they need.
8. They may want you to stay over at their place instead. Cats are independent but beneath their uncaring exterior, they yearn for attention and affection. Like dogs and children, cats can get lonely too. This is why some cat owners may prefer that you come over to their place instead. This way they can spend quality time with both of you.
9. Their cats might stare when you get intimate. Getting the feeling that you’re being watched when you and your date get intimate? Don’t worry, that’s just the cat observing you from its favorite spot. Some cats may even decide it’s the best time to stiff your feet and rub its face against you. Of course, every cat is unique in its own way but these are some of the things that have happened to other cat owners.
10. Cat lovers are more likely to be introverts. Studies show that cat lovers are more likely to have introverted personalities. So your date will appreciate you for giving them the me-time they need to recharge. They’ll also prefer dating in low-key settings. Avoid places that are loud and crowded. You know who else are introverts? These zodiac signs.
11. They will want you to meet their cats. One reason your date may seem eager to invite you over to their place is that they want you to meet their precious kitty. This is a milestone in the relationship. Don’t worry if you aren’t invited yet. Maybe their kitty is very private or it’s still too early to meet the family.

12. You will get scratches and love bites from these feline creatures. Like children and dogs, cats need to be taught the proper way to behave. Their owners are also responsible for keeping their nails neatly trimmed. However, even the best-behaved cat will bite and give you scratches. But don’t go punishing them, for they don’t have any malicious intentions. You simply have to give them a stern no and remove yourself from the interaction to let them know what they’re doing is wrong.
13. Unlike dogs, cats hate belly rubs. If you’re consistently getting kicks and bites from a well-behaved cat, you might be rubbing them the wrong way–literally. One common misunderstanding for someone who comes from a dog background is the belly rub. Most cats detest belly rubs and you should only do that if you’re ready to get bitten by the beast. When a cat trusts you, it will roll on its back exposing her belly to you but that is for eyes only–no touching! If you took it as an invitation to rub its belly you will soon discover that you’ve made a grave mistake.
14. The way to a cat’s heart is through its tummy. Get your date’s cat (or any cat) to like you with this simple trick–food. Not just any food. The cat’s favorite treats. Any cat will be cautious when you’re new to them, but it can never say no to delicious treats. It will try to fight that gluttonous urge but they always give in when tempted by food. So if you want to get buddy-buddy with the cat quickly, remember to bring some cat treats.
15. You will be jealous of their cat but you really shouldn’t. There will be times when your date seems to care more about their cat than you.
16. Do not date a cat lover if you’re allergic to cats. Do not knowingly date a cat owner if your body reacts negatively to a cat. You’re just putting yourself and the cat owner in a dilemma that is avoidable otherwise.
17. Never make them choose between you and their cats. Cat abandonment is a horrible thing to do. As a human, you can move on and find another person to date and fall in love with. But abandoned cats don’t move on as easily as you do. Many cats suffer miserable faith after they are abandoned. Adult cats are less likely to get adopted and they will stay in the shelter forever if they’re lucky to live in a no-kill shelter. However, in a regular animal shelter, cats that are not adopted are euthanized (that’s a fancy word for put to death).
18. You’re off to a great start if you’re a cat owner yourself. All cat owners secretly prefer to date one of their own. Sure, dogs and cats get along just fine but you’re so much more dateable when you’re also a cat parent yourself. And it will be so cute to have a double date with your cats.
19. Cats are “Cold on the outside, warm on the inside.” Never judge a book by its cover and never judge a cat by how it looks. Cats typically look cool and aloof but their appearance doesn’t reflect their feelings inside. You really need to get to know them and pay attention to the little things they do to find out what they’re thinking.
20. Cats are typically gentle and timid creatures. They become extremely cautious in the presence of something new. For example, if you’re seeing the kitty for the first time, they aren’t being unfriendly by avoiding you or, in some rare cases, hissing. They are just having some social anxiety that takes time to overcome.

21. Cat owners are proud to be “crazy cat ladies” and “crazy cat daddies”. Some may find these labels repulsive but many cat owners wear them with pride. What’s wrong with owning a dozen cats and giving them the love they deserve anyway.
22. Mistreating their cats is the best way to ruin the relationship. Cat abuse is a big no and will get you the boot you so very deserve. Remember, “treats, not mistreat.”
23. They love being sent cat memes. Want to text your date but not sure what to talk about? How about nothing at all? Just send them the latest cat meme you find on Reddit. It doesn’t matter if they have already seen it because they will never get bored of cat memes.
24. They will send photos of their cats. The cat may start off in the background by making cameo appearances in the selfies your date sends you. Before you know it they’re sending you photos of their cat and its various shenanigans.
25. Cat people are more likely to be tired. According to this Facebook study, cat owners are more likely to say that they’re tired. Admittedly, looking at the comfortable sleeping positions of your cat does make you feel sleepy and it’s been scientifically proven that your body releases the oxytocin hormone (the happy hormone that relaxes) when you hang out with a cat. But in this case I think the causation goes the other way. People with lower energy levels for whatever reason, for example, due to work and other commitments, are drawn to the cat companionship because cats require less work compared to dogs.
26. Understand that there are times when their cats take priority over you. As a responsible cat parent, your date will need to satisfy their cat’s needs. Take this as a positive trait. It indicates that they’re a responsible and reliable individual who is capable of commitment.
27. Cats have different sleeping patterns. Some people say cats are nocturnal, some say they’re crepuscular. One thing is certain, they don’t share the same biological clock as humans. So get ready for surprises when you’re sleeping over. Sometimes these surprises are happy incidents, for example, a cat might seek warmth by curling up in your arm at night.
28. It’s the greatest feeling when a cat purrs for you. Cats aren’t as good as dogs at expressing happiness–at least not in ways that humans can easily understand. That is why it’s so satisfying to hear a cat purrs for you. It’s like it can’t hide its happiness underneath their strict face–its purr has sold it out for being a warm, emotional, and content kitty.
29. Cat lovers will want their cats in their wedding photos. All cat lovers want their cats to take part in their wedding photos. So be ready for this conversation when you’re getting married. Or if you want to surprise your partner, bring it up as a suggestion yourself. I’m sure your partner will appreciate your thoughtfulness. Of course, you haven’t started dating yet… but still I feel like this is a cute thing you should know.
30. Keep an open mind. When you’re dating someone new, whether they’re a cat owner or not, it’s a good policy to keep your mind open. A relationship is a great way to experience different aspects of life and to learn something new. In your case, you’ll learn more about cats and the people who love cats. You might even decide to adopt a cat and become a cat owner yourself in the process.

And those are some of the things that are good to know before you start dating a cat owner. There are plenty more that didn’t make the list, for instance, many cat owners feel that they’re cat parents instead of owners. But we thought this list will help set the right expectation when you’re going out with cat person.

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Wondering what is it like to date a cat parent who seriously loves cats? Or perhaps you’re a cat lover yourself and you’re curious about what is it like to be in a relationship with you? Well, here are 15 things that happen when the person you date is a cat owner.

1. They’ll talk about their cats. In general, there are two kinds of topics people enjoy talking about. First is the things that irk them. Second is the things that they are passionate about. In the case of a cat lover, their passion is their feline companion. So you can be certain that the cat lover will talk about them–such as how cute they are and their peculiarities.
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2. Spontaneous sleepover is impossible. Say the night is going really well in your apartment and you’re thinking that your cat-loving date might stay for the night. Unfortunately, that kind of spontaneity just won’t happen. Before the clock strikes twelve metaphorically, your date must leave. No they are not Cinderella, there is no pumpkin carriage waiting for them nor have they left you a glass slipper. The truth is, being a responsible cat parent, they have to go home to attend to their cats–to fill up their water bowl, clean their litter box, and most importantly, give their cats food.
3. Texting involves a lot of cat emojis. Texting is a core part of modern dating. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or a conventional one, texting’s instant and asynchronous nature makes it the most flexible way for couples to communicate. When it comes to texting, emojis are an essential component. The use of emojis in texting allows you to say more in fewer keystrokes (or taps). Like regular people, cat lovers also use emojis during texting. But one difference sets them apart. Instead of the regular emojis like 😍😀, you’re more likely to get the cat version 😻😺 from them. They’re also likely to be heavy users of cat memes and GIFs.
4. They will show you photos and videos of their cats. Cat lovers love to show off their cats. Nobody can really say if this tendency is due to nurture or nature. The internet has an informal cat tax which obligates cat owners to post photos of their cats whenever they talk about their cats. So social pressure could be playing a role in a cat lover’s tendency of taking too many photos and videos of their cat. Whatever the reason may be, you can be certain that they will be eager to show off their cat to you.
5. You’ll be sent photos of other cats. While you shouldn’t have to worry about their loyalty, a cat lover is usually also intrigued by cats other than their own. So you should expect seeing other cats in your inbox too. For example, the cat lover might send you cat news, cat memes, cat GIFs, cat videos.
6. At some point, you will see them wearing cat ears. I’m not joking. The cat lover may hide their true self when you’ve just started dating. But once they open up to you… sooner or later you will find them wearing cat ears in one way or another. It may be in the form of a cat-ear hoodie, headphones with cat ear design, a cat-ear hairband, Halloween cat costume, or if you’re lucky–a cute and naughty costume for intimate moments.
7. They will want you to meet their cats and spend time with them. There are a few reasons why this will most definitely happen after a few dates. One, when you’re interested in (or in love with) someone, you’d want to share what you’re passionate with them. In this case, a cat lover’s passion is their cat. So naturally they’d want two of their favorites to meet. Two, the cat owner will use this opportunity to judge you based on your interaction with their cat. Are you good with cats? Do you hate cats? Perhaps you’re allergic to cat hair or cat smell. How their cat reacts to you matter. And you’ve just scored yourself some brownie points if their cat is friendly to you.
8. They will take care of your needs. It’s impossible to take good care of a cat without being patient, empathetic, dependable, and attentive. An experienced pet owner with proven track record (of not abandoning their pets) usually possess some, if not all, of these positive traits. Of course, their expectation for you and their cat will be different, and they won’t treat you exactly like they treat their cat. But you can be certain that a cat lover will be attentive to your emotional and physical needs.
9. You’ll always find cat hair on you. The thing about cat hair and pet hair in general is that you can never get rid of them completely, ever. No matter how many times you roll the lint roller on your shirt, some amount of cat hair will always stay with you. As if they’re saying “I’m never gonna give you up.” Even if the relationship doesn’t work out, the cat hair is here to stay until the end of time.

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10. Their cats might stare when you two get intimate. Cats are cute. They are also little loveable weirdos. Human rules and courtesy don’t mean a thing to these furry creatures. As such, they may decide that they need attention when you two are going at it. Or that they may become curious or concerned about their humans because they’re acting strange and making weird noises. Fortunately, this wouldn’t be a huge problem, you simply have to shoo them away–they act all high and mighty but cats are quite understanding.
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11. Buying gifts for cat lovers is easy. Getting someone a gift that they actually like can be a challenge. But not when that someone is a cat lover. When in doubt, just buy them a gift that is cat themed, like these lapel pins. Thinking of getting them a bracelet but not sure what kind of bracelet would appeal to them? A bracelet with a rose gold cat charm, of course! Thinking of buying pajamas for your partner? Get them some pajamas with cat print and they’ll be on cloud nine!
12. You’ll want to bribe their cats to get their approval. For real cat lovers, their cats are considered part of their family. Their cats’ opinion of you matters to them. So you’re in a better position if their cats approve you. And it’s not like you have a real choice. It’s one thing if your lover’s cat ignores your existence, it’s another if their cat hates your presence. All the hissing and scratching and biting wouldn’t be very enjoyable. Lucky for you, unlike common belief, cats are usually quite chill if you just let them be. To gain a cat’s trust and love, understand that they are some of the most corruptible little creatures. Just feed them their favorite snacks and soon you’ll be BFFs. Here are some additional tips on how to get a cat to like you.
13. You’ll learn a lot about cats. There are so many myths about cats that are simply untrue. For example, in some cartoons or films, cats are often fed with milk, but did you know that most adult cats are lactose intolerant? So don’t go feeding a stray milk because that may upset its tummy and give it diarrhea. You might also learn some interesting cat facts like the cat’s ability to rehydrate itself by drinking seawater (but only when necessary, processing seawater burdens their kidneys) or that cats are actually trainable–you just need to know the right way to do it. All in all, when you date a cat enthusiast, you can expect to learn more about what they’re enthusiastic about.
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14. It’s a deal-breaker if you’re allergic to or hate cats. Owning a cat is a commitment. When you adopt a cat, you accept the responsibilities of taking care of the kitty’s well-being from that point onward until its passing. So if you have started dating a cat parent and later found out that you’re seriously allergic to cats or that you really despise these little soft and (at times) cuddly fur balls, a responsible cat parent will break up with you for the better good.
15. You might become a cat lover yourself. It’s easy to double-tap on a cute cat photo online. But coming into contact and interacting with a cat and actually liking it are definitely not everyone’s cup of tea. All cats have their own unique personalities but they do share certain some common qualities that put off some people. That said, once you get past their quirks and learn to accept them as who they are, cats are surprisingly awesome companions. In interacting with a cat up close in person, you might just discover that you’re a cat lover all along.

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